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Right now, I feel so alone sitting in my room this whole day. I really want to go home but I can't. I still have to wait till December and that sucks(1000s of miles away from home with my girlfriend waiting for me). I've done this for our future...

I've felt so much pain in my life but I still don't wanna give up.

Is the pain worth it at the end?

2006-07-18 11:00:52 · 14 answers · asked by one-of-a-kind 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

14 answers

This is going to sound trite, but the truth is, without the bad we can't appreciate the good. You mentioned you are doing "this" for your future; well, it sounds like you've got some priorities. If it's worth having, it's worth working for. And, if she loves you, she'll wait for you. I hope you are sharing your concerns with her, it may help. Just be honest.

2006-07-18 11:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0 0

Pain makes you grow. Remember what doesn´t kill you makes you stronger, but try keeping yourself busy so that time goes faster. Take advantage of the free time you have now having your girlfriend far away and go to a Gym and see how great you can look by december, or learn something new, or take another job and buy her a ring. The idea is to grow and don´t let yourself get bored or the time will run really slow.

2006-07-18 18:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by copita 3 · 0 0

With every little pain a person goes through, they grow and learn a little. Is it worth it? Yes, it its. Without pain, there can be no compassion, without heartache, the rewards wouldn't be as sweet. So yes, the pain is worth it. Just keep holding on... things always turn out well in the end. Have an awesome day :)

2006-07-18 18:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by Emilie C 3 · 0 0

Pain is not voluntary. Grab a hold. Be scared. Fall in love and get your heart broken. Really go after what you want. Do not be scared. And feel as much pain as you can on your journey. The pain that comes from living, loving and losing.

2006-07-18 18:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by M2J 3 · 0 0

Just remember every second that you are away brings you closer to coming home again.

Is the pain worth it in the end?

Only you can answer that and as it's not the end yet, so you will have to wait.

All my best.

2006-07-18 18:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Oh, I can almost feel your pain. I do believe that everyone has to go through pain. Stay strong and talk to your girlfriend as much as possible. You want to let her know how much you love her.

2006-07-18 18:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by meme1972 2 · 0 0

One can circumvent "masochism" with the help of a web cam
and your girlfriend willing to perform for you! It's worth the try.

2006-07-18 18:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by cineone 2 · 0 0

Try to see someone you know, it'll cheer you up. Call your girlfriend, and try not to get too down.

2006-07-18 18:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by Sossage 2 · 0 0

well if u guys really love eachother than yah its worth it

2006-07-18 18:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by foxy_goth_6156 1 · 0 0

Yes, it's worth it.

2006-07-18 18:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0 0

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