My best said he has a gf. I don't think he should have one but I'm afraid he will be mad at me.
2006-07-18 10:56:32 · 18 answers · asked by SweetAngel 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
Why is your best friend not allowed to have a love life? You should glad for him.
Are you jealous because you think she'll still his time away from yours and his friendship? If he's truly your best friend, he will make time for you two to hang out. If he gets caught up in his new girlfriend and you feel ignored, just talk to him and tell you how you feel. Chances are, he didn't realize he was ignoring you.
So to sum it up, just talk with him and share your feelings. Hopefully you'll still remain best buds!
2006-07-18 11:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by bettalover 3 · 19⤊ 4⤋
If you were truly his friend, you'd want him to be happy. If there is something in particular you don't like about this girlfriend, then speak your mind, but do so sensitively.
If it's just the fact that he HAS a girlfriend you don't like, then it's not your place to tell him. I'm willing to bet you're a tad jealous because he's not going to spend as much time with you. The mature thing to do is just stand by him as his friend.
2006-07-18 11:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your desision whether he has a girlfriend or not. It really sounds to me like your are jealous. Is this because she'll be taking up alot of his time...or do you have unadmittable intentions for him yourself? Hmmm....
If you're his real friend, you should be feeling happy & excited for him. Maybe you should go get yourself a man...the 4 of you can all hang out together.
2006-07-18 11:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by pet stylist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent Fatal Attraction. Take notes.
2006-07-18 11:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should just wait awhile and see how all this turns out. In being a best friend to him u should trust his judgement on who he dates. And it depends on what kind of girl she is. Check the situation out and just be patient.
2006-07-18 11:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by JCman2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it your business if he has a gf? You must secretly want him. So just wait until he breaks up with her, and then make your move. Dont pass up yoru chance next time.
2006-07-18 11:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by bmwdriver11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he's your friend and that too, your best friend, i would think you would want him to be happy right? unless you have a soft spot in your heart for him? or you're afraid that he'll change or avoid you coz he's got another woman in his life...you need to be clear on what you feel in order to move on with this relationship with him...if he's a friend, he'll listen to what you feel, what you have to say!
good luck!
2006-07-18 11:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by ria k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, the decision is not yours to make. What if someone planned out your life for you with things that you would disagree with? It's not a very friend 'supportive' thing to do. Just be happy for him.
2006-07-18 11:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what point are you getting at? if you think he messes around too much and stuff just keep it to yourself. Let him see how far he gets and see if he is capable of being with her. it would of really helped if u were more specific. and your really no one too tell him what to do and your not his girlfriend so let him date who ever he wants its his life not yours. he wants to cheat on his gf then let him.
2006-07-18 10:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are best friends with him you should be happy for him. I think you like him and you are jealous.
2006-07-18 11:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he has a gurlfriend u shouldnt say anything cuz its his descision just respect and b there 4 him if it dosent work out btween them then it dosent is it just me or am i sensing u really like this guy>more than a friend
2006-07-18 11:00:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋