one of my best friends is black but me and her other friend got in a fight - i guess you can say they are closer. but me and her are close to but anyway her other friend is black she always takes her side - and make it seems like i am so wrong, but i am not - if it would of been her or any one else in the situation they would of done the same things
2006-07-18 10:06:59 · 18 answers · asked by Soldier 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you think you're jumping to a conclusion that race has anything to do with it?
Unless she's made a comment about your race, I'd make the assumption that she's just more 'like-minded' with her other friend, hence, they get along better and she doesn't quite see eye-to-eye with you.
I definitely wouldn't bring race into it unless you have some proof. I mean, if she HAS you as her friend, chances are she doesn't have race issues.
2006-07-18 10:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by lily 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't think that it is your fault that you are white a lot of people are. You are not wrong but if you're friend keeps taking her side you should talk to her because her friends should be your friends and if not, at least acquaintance's with you so what i highly suggest is that you take a day and sit down with your friend and her friend and see what the big issue really is, her friend may just think your racist or your just trying to be her friend for stuff but if you talk to them things should be settled if you ever want to talk just e-mail me OK? don't be afraid to ask. and don't be afraid to talk to your friend hope everything goes good! good luck! I have faith in you ^_^
2006-07-18 17:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by ANITA K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How the hell should we know?
You seem to have some issues, consider for a minute that you might possibly just have been WRONG and also white.
2006-07-18 17:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 10 or 15yrs you won't even care what the answer to this question is! Just be you and don't let someone change your opinion or who you are...and don't think everything's based on race. Good luck.
2006-07-18 17:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely
2006-07-18 17:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the two other friends are just closer so they think more alike.
2006-07-18 17:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by jljdc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing what situation you are talking about, or what the disagreement is, there is no way to know if it is because you are white or stupid, or both.
2006-07-18 17:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its just to balance things out. Just let them win once in awhile.
2006-07-18 17:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the problem is not from you dear, it's the way she act as your close friend. tell her what d ya think.
2006-07-18 17:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by Neda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take an honest look at yourself maybe you are the problem.If not find new friends
2006-07-18 17:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋