i never done it with a man but i wanted to know does it hurt when he sticks it in?
2006-07-18 09:50:05 · 17 answers · asked by beam 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It will be a bit unpleasant the first time or maybe even the first few. But your passage will be adapt and then it is a lot better!
Try practicing with fingers first. First one, then more. Maybe go to a few larger tihings.
Here a few tips
1) Get an enema before hand. You can use female douche.
2) Never be penetrated with out a condom on!
3) Use plenty of lubricant.
4) Have him put it in you slowly at first. When it is fully in just have him stay still for a bit. Give your passage time to expand. Then let him start pounding a way.
5) It may or may not be a good idea to start off with someone with a medium penis. - But trust me - soon enough you'll be able to take just about any size.
6) Practice squeezing your ***. Some guys like you to squeeze down on it for them.
2006-07-18 10:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It can be uncomfortable the very first time, especially for someone that has never had anything much larger than a tampon or small vibrator in their vagina. Also if the guy's penis is quite thick, there can be discomfort but generally it's a quite pleasurable experience, and if he enters slowly and allows her to relax, there may be no pain at all no matter if it is her first time or if he's larger than average in size....ya gotta figure it can't be too painful or awkward, otherwise there wouldn't be so many children in the world, women wouldn't keep letting guys do it if it wasn't fun! LOL!
2006-07-18 09:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, well the first time I was done by a man, he didn't really warm my love tunnel up and yes it wasn't really that great for me. Particularly as he didn't really give me a choice in the matter, and was 25 yrs older.
Even so I came while I was being done.
The next few times were so so, and I really let myself be f$cked because I wanted to be close to somebody.
The first time that it was really fantastic came later on. And my lover f$cked me for almost two hours. If there was ever one sex experience in my life that I would like to repeat it would be that.
In those days of course bareback was ok. But bareback now and you put yourself at risk of all kinds of diseases including HIV.
That said though bareback is much nicer, particularly as get more experienced as you can really learn how to make your partner c$me by working the muscles of yr anus and rectum.
If you want to have a nice first time, clean out first (enema), put in lots of lube (water-based or silicon oil), and take a good snort on the poppers when he first goes in.
Love
Augusta
2006-07-18 10:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a man, and you are referring to being on the receiving end of anal intercourse, then it can hurt very much... depending on how relaxed you are, the size of the other man, lubricant used, and technique.
On the other hand, stimulation of the male g-spot (the prostate gland) can be very erotic and pleasurable. However, this type of stimulation requires lots of practice and proper technique.
If you are a female, a virgin, and are talking about vaginal intercourse, then your first time can be painful... again depending on your arousal level, lubrication, the size of the man, and your own flexibility and receptiveness.
2006-07-18 10:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jacques H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am bi and the first time yes it hurts but its a good hurt. But if you have had sex with a female and you have used toys then it wont hurt. having a man inside you is truly an amazing feeling. the best part is when he first puts it in and you can feel yourself streaching to allow him in.
2006-07-18 09:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by kellieg8801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you put anyting in there? Yes, it will hurt some. If he goes slow and uses plenty of lube (AND a CONDOM absolutely) the pain can be minimized. Once he's in...it's not so painful.
2006-07-18 09:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear it hurts at first, but then it feels good. but I wouldn;t know since I'm still a virgin.
2006-07-18 12:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurts at first, but then pure pleasure!
2006-07-18 09:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by phxguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts lol, well it hurt me badly and i screamed cus i wasnt stretched back there and it was just painful but for women i hear they have it good lol
2006-07-18 09:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Crystal C ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. Try to shove a broom through a key hole.
2006-07-18 09:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋