ok, my ex b/f (we've only been broken up for two weeks) called me this weekend when i was getting ready to leave. he got mad at me.. but before i told him that i was walking out the door i think he wanted to ask if he can come over?!?!
but anyway, yesterday i called him up to see if he wanted to come over, and he said he'll call me back but didnt. and i dont know if i should call him or not???? what do you think??
2006-07-18 09:45:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Keep busy and don't call him again. As you've already proved, you know how to move on, which is very good and healthy. If he's still interested, he'll come after you and then you can decide if you can mend your fences with him or not. Time away from each other can help to clear your mind and long as you don't start "romantizing" your old relationship. Figure out why you broke up, and if it was a good reason or not. If it's for cheating (on either side), it's time to move on.
2006-07-18 09:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by mumsy_of_two 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you've been together for a long time (more than six months) . I would call him/her up and talk about it. But if you only dated shortly, I would just move on with my life. Its a lot easier that way. Theres no point going through heartache that you dont need. Its only going to give you wrinkles!
2006-07-18 17:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by tony c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him be. Right now he's being childish and not sure of what he wants, or he's only makin a booty call. There's better for ya.
2006-07-18 16:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by thoughtsofastranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you people call people your ex's and then proceed to call and not call and drama and more drama. Give me a break already. HE'S YOUR EX! Treat him that way. Ugh.
2006-07-18 16:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are not over him, ex?????? whatever is usually considered the past, I would be busy getting on with my life and not worried about someone who is my ex and their feelings.
2006-07-18 16:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I know why you both aren't together...you don't seem to be on the same communication level...back off until one of you learn how to schedule your time to be able to at least talk to one another.
2006-07-18 16:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call, you don't want to be his "no other plans girl" Live your life and have fun. If he really wants you he will let you know. Your not a booty call.
2006-07-18 16:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give the sucker anything. it sounds like he just wants you for a booty call. under no circumstances call him back. he's got your number and he knows how to reach you in person if he REALLY wants to talk.
2006-07-18 17:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by reemsh_2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being a brat (which I'm willing to bet si one of the reasons why you're not together still)
Leave him alone!
2006-07-18 16:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by Pask 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. As an older woman I have learned that when they don't call it's because they don't want to. AND there's nothing you can do about it.
2006-07-18 16:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋