2006-07-18 09:37:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
just what you said, just don't give a damn
2006-07-18 09:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by lulucakes32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly people are not thinking about you at all. Get to know what people really are thinking about by asking them questions about themselves, what they like to do, etc. Get actively involved in something. Join a volleyball team or something silly where what you do isn't so important, just have fun. Or maybe join Habitat for Humanity or something like that where you work at something fun instead of talk. Becoming a good listener is the best tho...
2006-07-18 09:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by Opalita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly, just don't give a damn...People will always have something to say and that's not going to change.
Just worry about yourself and do what you need to do...
2006-07-18 09:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by nomi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look yourself in the mirror every morning and if you like the person looking back at you then remind yourself of that every time your lil self consciousness starts to creep up. Say these words I AM SOMEBODY!!!!!!Always love yourself for who you are no one else.
2006-07-18 09:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by jozetta W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am really self conscious, too. i take every remark that anyone makes 2 my heart and i can't shake it when i'm insulted. even if they are just joking, sometimes i take it seriously and find myself hurt ovr nothing in other ppl's opinions. there's nothing wrong with you, it's part of who you are. you can't ignore what they say, but you can remember that you're special and they're just full of crap. you can lessen the impact by just being you and knoing they prolly envy you so they're rude.
2006-07-18 09:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by [x] Holli [x] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learning to love yourself is a step in the right direction,as some people say they do not care WHAT OTHERS SAY REALLY WE ALL DO CARE AT A CERTAIN LEVEL IT IS OKAY TO JUST BE YOU.
2006-07-18 09:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try reminding yourself how important these peoples opinions are going to be in 5 years...10 years...down the road. They won't matter. So just keep that in mind.
2006-07-18 09:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to know how to be a little cold at will. The only true way is for you to do what you think it is you want to do. And do it.
2006-07-18 09:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by Divine_Gesture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋