Do you think it's mean to make my Boyfriend wash his hands B4 sex ?

Question

I mean you know how the 4play goes..And I don't like him touching my (well you know what) till he washes his hands..Is that mean or rude ?

Answer 1

Nancy!! I do the same!! I think they have to have brains to know they have to wash their hands!!! And maybe tell him some awfull stories what can happen to people ignoring this rule :S I ask my boyfriend always to wash his hands before this :) and I told him the stories and it have worked :P It's not mean! It's for your wellbeing!!!

Answer 2

I don't think it's mean or rude at all. The vagina is a great place for yeast and bacteria to grow so, your only taking precaution! No need to feel bad about it. Good hygeine is a very important part of intercourse. You'll be more comfortable. Also brushing your teeth is a good idea. If you engage in oral sex, germs can also spread from the mouth as well, which can cause infections. Be mindful of his feelings though. You don't want to be insulting so, playfully ask him to take a shower with you, and don't forget to brush your teeth!

Answer 3

I am a man.

I just know better than to be told/asked.


What is wrong with him?


Maybe it is just me, but I wash my hands before I go to the bathroom -- I don't want that stuff on my (well you know what) either.

I generally brush my teeth before too.

Answer 4

Why stop at the hands? How about jumping in the shower and having it ALL clean? Heck no it's not rude... tell him to brush his teeth and scrape or brush his tongue while he's at it.

Answer 5

No of course not.Does he give you this feeling,that it's somehow rude?
You are very right to look out for yourself and any real men will respect that.

Answer 6

no...shows that you want cleans hands in u or on u....u dont know where is hands been

Answer 7

Naw it's not mean. Never know what on your hands that you can't see................