I've been invited on a date by a nice guy but he keeps good relations with bullies, to avoid trouble. He looks the other way when bullies attack someone he appreciates, and he makes sure the bullies feel appreciated by him.
2006-07-18 09:20:19 · 10 answers · asked by Logan 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
can you say spineless? if a guy is afraid of being beat up, i don't even wanna be friends
i defend my friends or those that i appreciate, no matter if it lands me in the hospital
i don't mind bullies, i actually justify them, but a person like that i just think is spineless
2006-07-18 09:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by mommy_mommy_crappypants 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's selfish of him. He let's his friends get hurt so he can be in good standing of these bullies. He's just afraid he's going to get beat up by them. If he was a real friend and if he was brave instead of being a coward he'd take up for the people they are hurting. Maybe while your on your date you can ask him why he's being a coward, and not taking up for his friends.
2006-07-18 16:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice Guy?!?!? All bullies are cowards, they pick on easy targets, so they feel superior at the victims expense. Your "Nice Guy" is also a coward & yes he's as much a bully as his friends if he egs them on. Don't believe me? Just start a relationship with him. He'll eventually turn on you, & abuse you if you let him.
2006-07-18 16:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You certainly can love someone like that.
But do you want to?
I would say such behavior reflects a serious weakness of character on his part. In my opinion, you'd be best off turning him down. There are plenty of better guys out there.
2006-07-18 16:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by extton 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't live without him or if he's the best guy you've met, then take it as 'that's just his downside'. Does that make you feel better? But still, never walk through dark or lonely alleys with him, especially at night.
2006-07-18 16:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by Concoction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see how you could respect him. What would you think if he stood by and let one of his bully friends abuse you 'cause he wanted to keep them in his pocket? Weird and creepy.
2006-07-18 16:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bullies? Are you in elementary school or middle school?
2006-07-18 16:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by infernomanor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
Tell him if he ditches the bullies, you're all his else he can hit the bricks.
2006-07-18 16:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by Kele manga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I could not love some one like that. And I don't believe you could either.
2006-07-18 16:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who is manipulative like that isn't worth your time. How long before he is manipulating you?
2006-07-18 16:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by wpililli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋