he is jewish. he gets angry when i ask him for money.he is giving me budget because he knows i have 0 dollars in my pocket.iam very pooor and i barely have what to eat in Greece.when i say i want to send some money to my familly fromthe budgrt he is beating me.pulling me down on the floor and slapping me.running from the table in the living room to the sofa to slap me and box me.
he had an affair before me ..but untill i left from greece before 4 mounths there were still phone calls.i want to be here so i use him and pay him back.he is trething if i lieve him he will kill me and my familly.what i do ....heeeeeeeeeeeeeeelp
2006-07-18 09:01:28 · 23 answers · asked by mariana i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Easy, You dont deserve an monther-F@cking a@@hole like that, the answer is easy
Get a ristraning order againtst him, or get the cops on him to beat his ******* lil ***
2006-07-18 09:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Master Hoyle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to sit down in front of a mirror and take a real hard look at what you see. That person is very special, there is nobdy just like you. You deserve a better life. most people think it is so easy to just walk out the door , but it isn't. Especialy in your case with no money. Get your important papers together and if you have a close friend get them in a safe place.If you can find a place where he doesn't know you would go and go there as soon as you can when he least expects it. If he is beating you and you can get to the phone call the police. If you do find a way to leave there will be lots of help out there people who understand and have gone through the same thing, YOU WILL NEVER BE ALONE AND YOUR SOMEBODY SPECIAL IS OUT THERE WITH A LIFETIME OF HAPPINESS. When you get away and are safe then you can take care of yourself and your family. It won't be easy but when you look in that mirror do you see a person who deserves it??? Alot of men get there kicks from hurting women don't let him feel good any longer IT is your turn to be happy good luck
2006-07-18 16:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by confused/hurt/angry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how is that using him and paying him back thing working for you? You need to get away from him NOW. He is threatening to kill you if you leave but he is definitely going to kill you if you stay. I'm not sure where you are saying you are, here we have womens shelters and domestic abuse hotlines you can all that will help you get out of the situation safely and get started on your life. If you have family you can go to do that. As far as the money goes you will need to find a job and earn some. Good luck to you.
2006-07-18 16:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His religion, your ethnicity--all of it is irrelevant. In the United States, spousal and dating abuse is illegal. Get help! There are many organizations to help women in this situation--including providing legal assistance regarding your immigration status if necessary. Where are you? In New York City:
http://www.sanctuaryforfamilies.org phone (212) 349-6009
or
Telephone: 718-657-6200 Fax: 718-739-6974 Email: Info@QWN.org
http://www.queenswomensnetwork.org/ are 2 places you could call.
If you're not in NY, go to this website: http://www.safe4all.org/
to find resources in your area. I suggest using a library/or public computer if possible, so your research footprints are not traceable.
2006-07-18 16:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mz.R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not okay for any person to be abusive toward another person! You need help and to get out before he gets too angry one night and you end up in the hospital.
You're in Greece? There's an abuse telephone number for a shelter centered in Ioannia. The number is: 003-26510-78810. Call them because they will be able to give you information on how to get out!
Please get help! The abuse is not your fault nor is it something he is going to fix over night.
2006-07-18 16:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by echo021782 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a knife and cut him.Self defence is not murder,Or make im some hot Ote meal and make it very hot and then when he is not looking through the ote meal out of the pan.Than get a pan and hit him with.Then if you don't want to do that go to the poloce station and sue and you will get all of his money and live with your parents until you get back on your feet.
2006-07-18 18:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by elginsamlee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been beaten for a while... and i would have never been allowed to send some questions as you are.... how can you questions interenet without him checking on you... there is something wrong in your story... I know because i have been in a situation like yours before....
I dont belive your story.... i think you are bluffing and try to get money or something else....
This is really unkind to use pity to get something
2006-07-18 16:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how it is in Greece, but in the US we hear enough on TV about leaving abusive relationships.
If you want to wait till he kills you, then stay. If you have any will to live, you leave.
Men who beat women are cowards...he just knows this is his only way to keep you with him -- FEAR!!!!
Call the police and have them escort you out of the house, and when you get out, STAY OUT!
2006-07-18 16:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go to the police and file a report write your family letters tell anyone who will listen get disposable cameras take pictures of the marks he leaves note everything he does to you so that when you get enough courage and stranght you can do his *** like he did you
2006-07-18 16:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by shay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out now. Go to a shelter for battered women.
According to the Greek government, there are two shelters. "Two counseling centers for battered women are operating in Athens and Piraeus, providing psychological and social support to the victims."
Please go to one of them NOW.
2006-07-18 16:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋