we have been freinds for ages but now she does not care about me what should i do
2006-07-18 08:49:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This sound like something I went thru. I lost my best friend when I was in 4th grade (they moved) a year later and new girl started out school and she rescued me and we became best friends for many years until 9th or 10th grade. We pretty much went our own ways. She hanged out more with her new friend and just left me there. Move on, someday you will talk again. I keep in touch with my friend but the feelings that we once had while being best friend just wasn't the same. There will be other girls out there that would love to be your best friend. You don't have to stop saying "Hi" or anything from your friend. Just accept the fact that she too moved on
2006-07-18 12:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe your friend has outgrown you in other words if she is hanging around new people and doing new things mabey that is why she is not hanging around you anymore it is sad but these things do happen exspecially when a friend gets a boyfriend or girlfriend . I know it hurts so I think u should bring it to her attention and let her know how u feel and if it keeps up you will have to accept it and move on there are alot of people looking for a friend like you trust me ...
2006-07-18 09:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by ThE OnE aNd OnLy ..PEPSIGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
@ the end of the day if she leavin u out she int worth the bother!! i used 2 have a friend like that but now we aren't best friend anymore and i have plenty MORE friends then i did wen i was 'bezzys' wit er! i have a few close friends but it better 2 keep ur options open u will have more friends in the long run!! dont depend on 1 person u wil neva rgow independant
2006-07-18 08:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lipzyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't spend time trying to figure out your place in her life because apparently you have grown apart. I have been in the same situation where my best friend and I have went months without talking and then when we do talk we talk for hours playing catch up. True friends will always be around and it doesn't mean that you have to talk every single day either...So get out and get your mingle on!
Feel good about who you are and live your life for you-stop looking for your best friend to validate you.
2006-07-18 09:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by SAMMIE K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here are 10 ways to get a life!
1.buy it on ebay
2.do some indian vodou so u get reborn againa nd a new life
3.feed it and cook it in the oven
4.go goth
5.my sis is looking for real friends because all she has is imaginary
6.be a loner and watch tv
7.no where to go so eat and this timi put it in the microwave
8.chge your idnetity start over
9.play the board gaem life
10.watch your birth
2006-07-18 11:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this situation aswell. Had a best mate whom i hung around with from year 5 till year 9 then all of a sudden she hung around with a different group and i became redundant. Luckily i had a couple of different groups of mates to hang around with after this. So basically don't try and barge your way back in with her, just let her get on with it, intergrate with other mates and enjoy yourself.
In my case, my mate had a tiff with one of the other girls and consequently she was kinda left out of that group and came back to me for a friendship. I accepted that because i she wasn't malicious with leaving me out before, it was the influence from the girls she had become mates with because they didn't particularly like me.
If your mate does end up coming back to you after a falling out with another girl then decided whether she was instrumental in your leaving out or whether it was her new friend group who played the most part.
2006-07-19 01:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by The_Landlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like she is either;
1) embarassed of you and has moved on
or
2) jealous of you and does not want you around to take the spotlight
2006-07-18 22:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmm....
Everything has a reason, but try to think in a positive way.
I'm convinced that next one will be good for you.
Cheer up ! Troubles will soon be over.
2006-07-18 09:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mint-Pringles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My motto in life is simple.
Lifes too short to deal with ars*holes.
2006-07-18 08:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People just grow apart. It happens to us all
2006-07-18 08:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by finnykid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋