everything started because i was living on an iland in Greece,it is terrible gyes...people were bad and with no culture..my familly lives there .i do not have right papers to work there and lieve an normal life.i am with him because my mum she said he may be good for you he will tace care for you.i neede financial support and he knows that,.i am not happy gyes...i can not be on my own.i have nohome
2006-07-18 08:49:06 · 7 answers · asked by mariana i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Didn't I tell your silly a$$ what to do the first time you asked this question!!!
2006-07-18 16:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a battered women's shelter before he kills you. Get a job. Shelters have programs that help you get your life on track. Get an education. You are never STUCK except in your way of thinking.
Don't tell him what shelter you're go to. Don't wast time thinking he will change. He won't. Your mom is conditioning your mind to think like hers. You don't need a man to take care of you. And if you do for now...then it doesn't have to remain that way. Use your own mind .Women are independednt and strong nowadays. We have jobs, careers, property, and bank accounts. You are being a victim by choice. It's 2006 and there are agencies around to help women that didn't exist in your mother's young days and this is why she feels you need this man to take care of you. Women in her time married for security reasons. Not always for love. So her advice is an extension of what she believes to be true. But what she believes Is not the only answer.
2006-07-18 09:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out. I don't know for sure where you can go, but find someplace. He's not a man, he's a little boy at best. He may stop for a little while and act nice, but he will start again. And it will get worse. Go to the local church, hostel, or shelter and don't leave any clue where you are. Get back to your family some way. Please don't think he will change. Even if he does, you do not need this and his actions are unforgivable. And once safe, have that scum arrested.
2006-07-18 11:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by robling_dwrdesign 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mariana leave if he's beating you again he will never stop. Life's to short to be unhappy.He's no man if he puts his hands on you he's should take care of you that's what a real man does.**** him.Leave
2006-07-18 08:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get in touch with your family where your from you need help please don't continue to stay with him and he treats you this way there are org. that will help you in your state do something write again let us know you did something about this please
2006-07-18 08:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by Kay D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get help! go to the police or something. good luck.
2006-07-18 08:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Chiky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him and find ur family
2006-07-18 08:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋