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I'm not sure how to ask this, so I'll tell you my story real quick. I was offered a job, but it's not the job I want, but my mom and b/f told me to take it, so I'll have a job if the other places don't come through. I have several other interviews lined up, and potentially another offer. I didn't want to accept this job and then quit before I even started working. My mom told me to look out for #1, which is me, and not worry about feeling bad for this place, but I would feel terrible if I was offered another position somewhere else, that was what I wanted, and then quit this place.....does that make sense? Its kinda confusing I think. But I was just wondering what would you do? and have you ever done it before?

I have to ask for early lunches so I can go to these other interviews, I feel like I'm lying to them, and I haven't even officially started yet, and I've already asked for time off and stuff.

Answer 1

First of all, congratulations on your offer. You seem like you are in a great situation.

Well, can you ask the company that offered you the job..for an extension? If they do not offer at least a week..then they are probably not worth it. But, be reasonable. Be sure to tell them you want to see what other companies are offering since you still have some interviews lined up.

Try to have all your interviews ASAP. Also, be sure to narrow the interviews down to a few (if you have a lot) and possibly decline ones you are not that interested in. Only interview for companies you really like. Also, be sure to tell every company you interviewed for or will interview for that you got an offer, so they will have to make a decision quickly. Often times, this can work in your favor because they will have to compete for your work. They may have to raise their salary offer to match other companies. It goes by the theory..if someone wants something...they want it too.

The other option is to accept the offer and give yourself a few weeks leeway..but I would advise against it because it would burn your bridges if you quit like 2 weeks into your job.

Try to be calm and weigh each offer you get carefully. See if you can envision yourself working there..this will help you..and of course, consider salary, benefits, work environment, and location. Good luck.

Answer 2

The old saying goes: "A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush."

If you have a job it's better than interviewing for two. But don't stop looking for a better one.

I would keep looking but be more selective. Only go for the really good ones. When interviews come up tell the new company that you are working and see if they will be more accommodating by setting up the interview before or after work.

Your not the first person to change jobs. Just be considerate and give your current employer time to replace you before starting the new job.

Answer 3

You could accept the offer and put off your starting date for 3 weeks from now. That would give you time to go to your other interviews or to see if the other offer you really want comes through. Then if it does come through you can call this place and thank them for the opportunity, but a better offer came though. I agree with you and not your mom or BF. You never know if you will run into or work for this other company or people again. Its best to always make a good impression and not necessarily look out for just you.

Answer 4

I would follow your heart everything happens for a reason and it cost alot and takes a ton of resources to hire someone... If you have lots lined up than you will get another offer....

Don't settle for a job that you may not want, if the possibility to have the job you love might be right around the way..

That is looking out for #1

Answer 5

Ultimately, your happiness is what is the most important. If you think you have a chance at landing something else better and it is actually what you want to do, then hold out. Also, keep in mind, especially if these jobs are all in the same career area or field, that you NEVER EVER EVER EVER should burn a bridge. You might find yourself in a situation when you need a reference or a contact from the organization that you blew off. So, if you take the "less appealing" job, keep that in mind if you decide to leave. GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 6

When you start, you usually are brought in as temporary. During this time, I think it's fine to tell them that you have a better offer and you will be quiting in two weeks (always give two weeks - it's just polite).

I took a job interview while I was a probationary employee - I felt a little bad about it, but it all turned out ok.

hope that helps :-)

Answer 7

I agree... look out for yourself and if you get a job you want, take it instead. Don't let the place know that you're still looking at other jobs because if they know they probably won't hire you. Most all employers want employees that WANT to work for them and are happy.... thus makes happy customers. You have no obligation to this place if you don't want to be there and they can always find another person to replace you so don't feel bad.

Answer 8

I have been in similar situations. If you are in a secure situation at home with a roof over your head and food, I'd wait for the right job. If you had trouble getting interviews and had little hope I would say differently but it sounds good. Wait a while longer.

Answer 9

Don't worry about it. Some one was doing the job before you started so when you leave they will find someone to fill your place. The only time you should feel bad is when it's a family buisness.

Answer 10

If you need an income, then take the unwanted job, but otherwise wait it out and see. You never know you might like this job once you get started!