i'm 19 and i've only done it 4 times and it hurt like hell...what should i do? the doctor said i have retrospective utheres; could this be an inpediment? it's been said that if you wait until you are old enough then it would be much pleasenter...
2006-07-18 08:35:19 · 11 answers · asked by olga z 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Is likely there is insufficient lubrication. Can be as simple as insufficient foreplay or lack of secretion by the glands which take care of that lubrication.. Need to have it checked out. Urethra problem would be a bit more specific in area.. lack of lubricant would be more internal. At least this will give you something to measure specificity of the location.
2006-07-18 08:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by mrcricket1932 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've gotta wonder about some of the idiots who answer here...
Several things - the already mentioned lubrication could help. Make sure to always use waterbased lube. However, if you are not lubricating sufficiently at your age, you should have it checked out. Maybe there's something amiss with your lube glands. Or you're not turned on enough when intercourse begins.
If you have a prolapsed uterus, you could try being on top during sex. Another advantage is that you're more in control then.
And - you could get a sex toy - a vibrator - and use lube to insert into your vagina. Sometimes it just takes some getting used to and a toy would help with that. Also, it will give you the opportunity to figure out what floats your boat without being under performance pressure.
Good luck.
2006-07-18 17:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
'Doctor, Doctor, it hurts when I do this!'
Doctor: 'So don't do that!'
Not to be too flip here, but if something, ANYTHING, hurts...your body is trying to tell you something! I may be that you're not lubricating enough, causing undue friction...it may be your partner who is being too forceful, after all, this is a new activity for you. I'm not going to tell you not to have sex; that decision can only be made by you, for you, but be sure that you are not feeling pressure to do more than you'd like. Remember, there is really no such thing as 'safe' sex...just 'safer'...!
2006-07-18 15:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by Rev Debi Brady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. . maybe like me. . your man has a colossal wang. Try much lubrication and very slow shallow strokes. eventually you may loosen up a bit to the point where he can jackhammer your brains out.
2006-07-18 16:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not using lubrication ,be sure and get some it will help and it helps a lot if you get ready for sex with lots of foreplay
you may need to get a vibrator to relax you and get you ready
2006-07-18 15:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by crystal h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay on the floor and do pelvic lifts. That should help
2006-07-18 15:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by Angela D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well den u have a serious problem hope u get betta
2006-07-18 15:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by Nikka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you mean tipped uterus? if so try another position other than missionary
Good luck
2006-07-18 15:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by dininat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts coz it feels good in the end
2006-07-18 15:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to shut youre mouth up
2006-07-18 15:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by charmbutt65 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋