I mean wanted the "exact same" attire ,hair color,tattoo,lifestyle....
and you can take it as a compliment,but deep down inside you know its not.
2006-07-18 08:28:18 · 15 answers · asked by lala 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
WARNING ~ LONG!!... but well, here goes..
I am going through this right now.
I recently met this girl who is my husband's co-worker's wife. I think she is seriously disturbed. I have gone out with her before and she started using my own jokes right in front of me..wearing my stuff I loved on her t-shirts, as magnets & collecting the things I told her I liked!! And this extends to copying my exact hair & mannerisms, views on situations, talking like me & everything..it is infuriating! Once I got onto the fact, (i never said a word to her, so I have NO idea how she knew) she just stopped seeing me FLAT ~ telling her husband inflammatory things like I always upset her, etc..(literally from the day I realized - she wouldn't even answer her door ever again for me..) She was GOOD..
After ALOT Of rage..(and luckily my husband is very supportive) I realized that NO ONE CAN EVER BE YOU BUT YOU..it is intimidating & SCARY to think they might actually pull it off..but I realize it's SOOO PATHETIC and they really are either, 1)psychologically ill or 2) crying out for a reason to luv themselves *and for a beating* but I won't go there..she may have borderline personality disorder..it's actually an opportunity for you to share the Lord with her if you believe..once she realizes how much Jesus luvs her for HER it could actually change her whole life & you could see her bloom..BUT ~ if all else fails, just realize all the crap she'll rip off is just CRAP you'd probably be embarrassed of anyway.. in a few years..just get away from her. Otherwise..she could be alot more dangerous than you think..that's what I did & she ended up emailing me & getting down right nasty & I realized how sick she is.
Also, you'd be surprised the people that know you see right through that crap. FEEL BAD FOR HER & give her a copy of SWF..she'll get the hint ;) *sorry to write a book* it's a topic close to home.
2006-07-18 09:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by irolag100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I would first tell this person in a subtile but very clear way that he/she is driving me mad and should stop imitating me. That he or she should develop an identity of his own. But if that would fail....
I would go to a make-up artist and let him make me a fake bold head.
Then I would get some fake tattoos.
This person who wants to be me would, off course, shave his head bold and get the same tattoo.
When that has happened, I would get rid of the disguise and show that I have still long hair and it was a fake tattoo.
Now, let's see how long it takes this person to look like me again.
2006-07-18 15:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by Bloed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that copies all I do. Sometimes I am ok with it and sometimes I wanna choke her lol. For the most part, I don't care much. She can copy me all she wants, but she will never have the man I have cause he is only ONE in this world. He was born a twin but he died at birth. Even if he were around today, I'd make sure she didn't get him lol.
2006-07-18 15:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first I might feel a little flattered. But I think someone who did 'everything' you did would get old very fast. Not to mention that the person must not like their own life very much if they are trying to become someone else...I think they need help.
2006-07-18 15:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by V9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably be honored and very happy at first.
But I would never want that person to go trough with it. I guess I would be kind of annoyed after a while.
2006-07-18 15:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by sunshiine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I need to worry about that one since I am very ordinary and attract little attention.
2006-07-18 15:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with them and have a brief talk---don't because I will wrap your butt in tin foil and set you on a grill---that hopefully would end that !!!
2006-07-18 15:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do a thing. I would ignore them. Well, I may scream at them a few times. yeah. I would HATE it if somebody stole my style!
~Peach~
2006-07-18 15:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try to let them know that it's important to be an individual!
2006-07-18 15:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by caribbeanbabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at first i would be like "Aww, that is really sweet", but really i would be creeped out, so i would kind of stay away from that person
2006-07-18 15:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by Kyrsten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋