Y cant people just do it when they want to y do people try to get mad at each other for having sex too earily.. Isnt it your own personal choice.
2006-07-18 08:22:45 · 24 answers · asked by Caught up in my wildest dreams! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Um well...children...don't get a "personal choice" that's why people get mad...and NO not everyone does it when they are 16...
If you aren't old enough to become a parent and you aren't old enough to get a job and if you aren't done with school and if you can't support yourself....you're too young.
Do you want to be a child, who isn't even old enough to drive, staying home with a screaming baby for the next 18 years??
Do you want to have to hire a babysitter for your senior prom???
Do you want to miss that rad party because you have to go to parent teacher night at your kids school???
Don't be an idiot...keep your legs shut.
2006-07-18 08:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay you are showing your age in that statement, one of the reasons why you are not ready for sex! Personnel choice? is it by personnel choice that thousands of babies are aborted every year because their idiotic parents didn't have enough sense to wait??? I'm sure their choice would have been to live. Or how about the babies born with STD's cause their parents thought it just felt so good that they couldn't contain themselves. Or maybe all those kids on welfare cause the parents had sex at 12 and birth at 13 and now can't afford to feed the baby, WHAT A SHOCKER!!! Grow up and learn not to be so selfish with your "personnel choices" and then you might really learn what sex can be like!
2006-07-18 08:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of people in their early teens would ask that very same question. Go forward 20 years and ask them again and they will say that 16 is possibly even too young.
In your teens you think the world is yours, you are immortal and life is there for the taking. It takes experience to realise that actually life is what you make it yourself, and also life can be really tough if you make the wrong choices.
The law says under 16 is too young simply to protect people for ruining their own lives. Having sex is probably on your mind a lot but to be honest when you are young and inexperienced it's probably going to be a disappointment anyway so you are better off waiting for someone that you really love and making it seem a more special memory for you to look back on.
2006-07-18 09:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by dashabout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think we get upset that young teens are having sex! I think we r more concerned about their safety while doing it! I have a 15 year old son and I have totally educated him on protection from diseases as well as from pregnancy! Thats what mothers worry about the most! I know a teen is going to have sex eventually and theres nothing we can do about it BUT make sure they know how to do it safely!!! We worry out of love!
2006-07-18 08:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its your own choice. dont let people presure you into doing something you dont want to do for example having sex, just because everyone else is doing it doesnt mean you have to just stand up for what you believe in and do what you think is right im sure you will know when the time is right
2006-07-18 08:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by CherryWineGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must be young, i had sex very early and got pregnant at age 15, so not i'm the only 22 year old with a first grader and believe me IT'S NOT FUN!! u need to be old enough to handle the consequences before u do it ana crying @ss baby that grows into a really mean kid is one of them, don't get me wrong i love my son more than anything, but kiss your teen years goodbye if u get pregnant!!
2006-07-18 09:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are 12 and pregnant and my taxes have to pay for your welfare check, then yes, it is my problem. And you shouldn't do it at 16 either. Heck, I am sick of reading questions from 18 year olds who are worried that they don't know what they are going to do with the baby.
2006-07-18 08:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by e_imommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-19 20:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till your married. Plus sex feels great! Good Luck
2006-07-18 08:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by star_trek_fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a very personal choice but until your in yoru late 18+ teen and twenties you dont have the development of as much rational thought and can be making a horrible life altering decision
2006-07-18 08:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋