I am going to get married....now, I wanna send a mail to my husband giving my friend's name...where, i wanna advice him how he can make his first night of marrige more romantic n lovable and having a wonderful intercourse with his wife....I am virgin...so, plz, experienced peple give some suggesion to him....I will send him the best suggessions as mail to his mail box....
2006-07-18 08:20:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Having a hard time understanding the question. The way I read it you are getting married but you want to send your husband-to-be a letter making it seem that it is actually from one of your friends giving him advise on how to "please" his wife (you) on your wedding night. Is that right or did you mean something else? If my interpretation of your convoluted question is correct then just tell him what you want and don't write him at all. If the advise is for a friend on his wedding night to someone else then just mind your own business.
2006-07-18 08:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure why you would want to pretend this advice came from a friend, that strikes me as getting started off on the wrong foot lying so early in the marriage.
The only thing he needs to remember is to go slowly and gently, and make sure you are really lubricated before he attempts to penetrate. Don't be surprised if this doesn't happen on the wedding night, sometimes it has to be worked up to. Truly, it's usually quite uncomfortable for the woman at first, but it will get better.
Congratulations on maintaining your purity and best wishes for your new life.
2006-07-18 15:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by Singlemomof10 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey congrats on you being a virgin this long. I know someone laughed at it a few spots up, but I was a virgin when I met my husband, and was until I got married. So it is possible, and I wish more people would wait until the wedding night!
I'd say go easy and slow. It may not be perfect, but you have rest of your lives to perfect it!!
2006-07-18 17:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget mailing and getting advice from others.
The secret of having wonderful sex with your husband is with YOU. Be relaxed and cool and happy with your body. Communicate with him when you are being intimate. Respond to his touch by saying 'that's nice' etc. Ask him to touch you where and how you like it. Tell him to slow down or speed up. Give him positive feedback. Encourage him to do the same. Give as well as receive. By opening up and being free and honest you communicate to each other so you know what each other likes, AND this in itself is a real turn on. I wish you both a wonderful life.
2006-07-18 15:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by Shona L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about taking a different approach:
Get a "thinking about you" card telling your fiancee that you love him, and you are thinking about how you can make his first night as a husband a memorable one. Make a number list for him. I'm sure he'll get the picture.
2006-07-18 15:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know how big the wedding will be but if its big, both will be stressed out then sex will suck the first night, take a few days to de stress, then try having sex. i have been with my guy for 35 years and our first night together we went to a water park and acted like kids then had sex the next morning. in bed, in the kitchen, in the bathroom, and several other places that day.
2006-07-19 15:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by bonny b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Satin sheets are very sexy, great for lovemaking. Wal-mart carries them. Also, if he gives you roses when you arrive, maybe some candlelight and soft romantic music.
2006-07-18 15:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by luneib 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write: "Hey buddy, hear you getting married soon, congrats. Here's how to look after the new virgin wifey you got there...OK...so let me tap it first while you hold the camera....
2006-07-18 15:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, suggest he be gentle.....he should kiss your lips....then your neck...slowly make his way down ur body......carefully undressing u as he goes......then he should perform oral s*x on u.......then after you've c*m like that, he should slowly put his d*ck in u.........you'll enojy every minute of it!!
2006-07-18 15:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahahahahahaha....a virgin.....hahahahahahahahahahahaha!
2006-07-18 15:38:26 · answer #10 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋