Seriously! Don't you think that if a spouse isn't happy at home, he/she should at least have to guts to ask for a divorce before looking elsewhere for happiness?
2006-07-18 08:16:52 · 20 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I couldn't agree more. I mean why be with someone who can't even make up his/her mind if they want to be with you or not? I dislike indecisiveness in people.
I made a pact with my husband that either one of us ever had a change of heart, we would be the first to tell the other. And a divorce would be the only answer. No use in hurting anyone over changed feelings. It gives me peace of mind that my heart would not be toyed with if he ever had a change of heart. I would be devastated but at the same time understanding because people change and you have no control over how people should feel. So why hold them back?
2006-07-18 11:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by jade11378 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-14 22:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. I beleive its a comfort zone in case **** happens. Its like insurance policy. If they go out with this woman or male knowling knowing its just a screw why would they give up there pot to piss in. Its about morals. If you know its hurting both of you guys you need to make a desicion. Otherwise you will start to regret or maybe never regret the actions you are doing and just either be sad, miserable or not happy.
2006-07-18 08:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by kjoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're insecure. They want to go mess around, and then have someone to go home to. They know that by leaving their spouse they'll regret it but they can't seem to grow up and be in a commited relationship. It takes people a long time to realize what they have and sometimes it's just too late.
2006-07-18 08:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People delude themselves into thinking that secretly cheating on their spouse will hurt the spouse less than telling them they want to go screw other people.
2006-07-18 08:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if the spouse puts up with it, they are going to "eat their cake & have it, too". A person is only going to mistreat you that way as long as you let them.
2006-07-18 08:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by Selkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some ppl dont do it for happiness. they o it for exitment. it makes them feel young. sometimes they keep with their spouses because they have kids and want to be wit their kids. some ppl have business together and have a marriage of convinience. then ofcouse there r swingers who have sex with other ppl in front of their spouses
2006-07-18 08:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are screwing around on their spouse that automatically makes them ball less.
2006-07-18 08:22:56 · answer #8 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are comfortable with that person. What happens if the person they are cheating with dumps them? They need a fall back person (ie. their spouse)
2006-07-18 08:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are afraid of ending up alone... It's like a job.. You don't quit one job until you have another one lined up.... Its a shame but reality... people need to take other partners feelings into consideration.
2006-07-18 08:22:18 · answer #10 · answered by mairas0315 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋