Ive been with my man for 5 years, and we're getting married next year, but lately I've been "noticing" certain guys more than usual.....We're both young, attractive professionals, and both get "attention". I mean, we both agree that Looking is allowed, but I've caught myself flirting a bit much with some people without even realizing.....
Should I tell my fiance? I'm not thinking of breaking up, but Im wondering if we need to spice up our relationship.....
2006-07-18 08:12:48 · 15 answers · asked by Kim V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Spice it up. When you get into a routine you tend to fade out romatic wise- do things a little different-- ask your man if he wouldn't mind if you two played a game where you meet at a bar or club for drinks only you both pretend you don't know each other, then as the night progresses- you flirt, get drinks, eat, and go back to your place for a night cap---- Maybe you two just are not getting enough romantic times together and need more of them or you just like to fanasize---either way you need to tell him how you feel-- tell him you don't want to break-up you just feel he should know that you're having these feelings that your relationship needs a little spice and if asks why you feel this way all of asudden tell him honestly that you have noticed that you're flirting way more than usual and it concerns you-- I hope that he will be flattered that you're concerned on his feelings dealing with your actions.
2006-07-18 08:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by BB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's funny. There was a question on Y! Answers that asked about married guys flirting. Almost every single answer bashed men, saying he's not respectful; he's this; he's that. There's too much hypocrisy up in this place!!! I CAN'T TAKE IT!!!
Just kidding.
I guess it was just a room full of one-sided people.
Flirting is innocent, but if you want it to be more, then there's a problem.
2006-07-18 15:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some spice is definately in order... but flirting is just nature.. we, as humans want to know that people are attracted to us. Everyone that's in a relationship still flirts... as long as you're looking and not touching, I don't see a problem with it.
2006-07-18 15:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wandering eyes doesnt hurt.. its the touchy and well flirting can lead to that... so you have to ask yourself if you need to spice it up.. are you losing interest in him? are you looking for something else? If you dont wanna break up with him then i would just be quiet and not tell him a thing... cuz he might just end up letting you go..
2006-07-18 15:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by george 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like instead of the 7 year itch, you've got the 5 year itch...yeah, spice up ur relationship....that can NEVER be a bad thing!!
2006-07-18 15:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spice would most defiantely be the answer. You wouldn't be looking that much if you didn't feel like something was missing from your relationship.
2006-07-18 15:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by Duckie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your fiancee needs to spice things up...
2006-07-18 15:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is okay as long as you know your limit. Before making any quick moves think about what you have at home.
2006-07-18 15:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by cdj514 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were 64 years old, and come back to the present time, what would you suggest to yourself, crazy but interesting
2006-07-18 15:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by lion61_mx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just crave constant attention. Grow up.
2006-07-18 15:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋