OK. Ive been with my boyfriend a year and a half now and i just feel that are relationship is getting boring.I love him very much and he says he loves me too but im affraid that if things dont get better that it might split us up.I want to make him realise how special i am too him but just dont quite no what way to do that!If any1 could give me a few wee tips i would be very thankfull.Thanks xxx
2006-07-18 07:55:33 · 21 answers · asked by madchicno_19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you just need to go out more with him, have some fun, go camping, something, whatever your thing is, do it withem.
2006-07-18 07:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Raymond 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I am not sure how old you are or how old your boyfriend is, but maybe you should try spicing things up a little. Make him a romantic dinner, or make dinner reservations at a romantic restaurant. It may sound cheesy, but maybe a walk through the park or on the beach might be good for the both of you. You could give each other massages with special oils. Just a few ideas. I hope this helps. Good Luck!!
2006-07-18 08:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you can not make anyone love you. If something is missing that you must artificially invent you are just prolonging the inevitable.
That does not mean you can't spice things up by deviating from the norm. The best thing you can do is explore ways to make him really belly laugh everyday and find common interests that will spark his interest. Sex is a fun way to do that but remember it is a temporary activity that doesn't make for a long term solution. Good luck!
2006-07-18 08:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men dont show affection the way we want. My boyfriend isant really big on showing emotions. And I really had a problem with this because I didn't feel I was getting as much as I was giving. But then I realized that he shows me everyday that he loves me, he goes to work 60 hrs a week and pays the bills, he never lets me take the trash out because he says that's a mans job, he always comes to bed with me even if hes not tired, he wanted me to meet his whole family even though I fought tooth and nail , he said I was to important to him to not know them. He doesn't write me love notes all the time or bring me gifts everyday and he doesn't say sweet things constantly, but he shows me in his own way how much I mean to him. Maybe your man does the same thing if he wasn't shown alot of love and affection growing up than maybe he doesn't know how to show you the way you want. If you want to be with him you have to take him for what he is and not what you want him to be.
2006-07-18 08:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by nynerprincess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep the mystery alive, sister! Do NOT move in with him. Hold back a little, emotionally and even physically. Marriage must hold a promise of more to come. Do not call him, or at least make it a rare thing when you call him. he should call you. Don't ever make yourself too available. Make him feel like he's more of a man, that would make him more reluctant to lose you if losing you means losing that manly feeling as well. you know, show him respect. And you must make him proud to be with you. dress nice, look nice, be a lady. If you are too quiet around his friends, liven up, ask them questions about themselves and be interested...if you are too loud and obnoxious, tone it down.
2006-07-18 08:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kalinka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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How can i make my boyfriend love me more?
OK. Ive been with my boyfriend a year and a half now and i just feel that are relationship is getting boring.I love him very much and he says he loves me too but im affraid that if things dont get better that it might split us up.I want to make him realise how special i am too him but just dont...
2015-08-04 07:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you do something romantic? I know that's the usual answer but if you guys aren't that romantic on a day to day basis, it would make a nice change.
I often post my other half little cards with little poems or a nice letter I've written telling him how much I think of him..... there's tons of ways to keep the romance going and to let him know how special you are.... good luck!
2006-07-18 07:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by muggle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the trouble with your relationship is you. More than likely he loves you & is completely comfortable around your presence. This tends to quiet men up & make them seem less interesting than when you first meet. Maybe suggest a romantic dinner or something that you find interesting, then follow it up with something fun & crazy, but make sure to end the night with a bang. Really wild kinky sex to help spice things up will take away your boredom & make him realize you want a little more from the relationship than he is giving.
2006-07-18 07:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's boring now, don't do anything stupid like get married. Take a break from each other for a while. See how it goes. Things do get boring sometimes. By the way, you can't MAKE anyone love you. Sorry!
2006-07-18 08:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should go out with friends more and develop new interests. If you are headed for a breakup it will be to your advantage. If you are not always available to him, he may start to appreciate you more. This is just an idea, since I don't know what your relationship is like. Good luck.
2006-07-18 07:59:03 · answer #10 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you can't MAKE someone love you. The more you try the more you'll push them away. Ask yourself this question..."Do I love myself?" If you don't love yourself (or even like who you are) don't expect someone else to love you. You're young and it sounds as if you've become dependent on this relationship. Break away from it for a while and do something for yourself...to better yourself. Get to know you. ( Guys will find you way more attractive if you have self-confidence. ) You'll be a lot happier.
2006-07-18 08:08:49 · answer #11 · answered by TJ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋