So me and my friend liked the same guy and both liked him ALOT. I obsessed over him and so did my friend. We both hung out with him at the pool. My friend said he could've liked me. Though, it sure didn't end out like that. My friend was sleeping over at my house and she brought her laptop and we had our daily buddy chat with the guy. That's when my sister had to ask him(in a private convo) Who he liked. He said my friend. Then he asked her out. She accepted. She didn't care what I felt. She pretty much expected me to be happy for her. Now I am okay about it. I never was mad at her or anything. But still... I wonder.
2006-07-18 07:50:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thanks for the 2 points
2006-07-18 07:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think your sister was wrong. She brought the situation to a decision. You didn't really want it to go on like that did you? If he would've picked you ? Would you have turned him down? Be honest with yourself. Be happy for your friend and move on. There are plenty of cool guys out there. Focus on other things and let it go. Otherwise you'll lose the guy and your best friend.
2006-07-18 07:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by chitchenitza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister should have minded her own business. It sure hurts, but you have a mature attitude not to be mad at your friend. It's not her fault. Sometimes life is hard. It is all fate though, and you may end up meeting a much nicer guy and be available since this one didn't work out. Big hugs to you.
2006-07-18 08:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for the sake of your friendship you both should of let him go. You sister had no business asking him with out permission from you or your friend. It is one of those things that happen in life to alot of friends. Some people go for the guy and find out he was a jerk for leading you both on ( hint, hint). Have a talk with your friend tell her how you feel and try to move on with your friendship.
2006-07-18 07:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by jellybean7980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why you don't like the same person as your friend... and I'm really confused as to who went out with him. Was it your friend or sister? In a few years, this won't even matter. Don't put too much thought into it.
2006-07-18 07:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did the same thing to your friend and accepted an invitation on a date, would you be wrong? Put yourself in your friend's shoes. Besides, this guy you like is just a guy. Never let a guy get in between a valuable friendship (that's if it is valuable to you).
2006-07-18 07:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by italian_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to accept that he likes your friend and not you. As friends, you should be happy for her, even though she ended up with the guy. You can't expect her to give up her happiness for you. As long as nothing else changes, it's okay to feel jealous.
2006-07-18 07:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question.
1.) I wish your sister left it to you both.
2.) Its disappointing that ur friend didnt respect ur feelings, but its magnanimous on ur part to let go and not make a big fuss abt it.
3.) Avoid him from now on. Sometimes ur girlfriend may thing u are deliberately trying to get his attention by continuing to be his friend. Friends change.
2006-07-18 07:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U both were wrong! no boys in women`s friendship. U should leave him both, when U understood that were obsessed with him.. I`m glad u`r ok now.. Hope it`ll never b again in future.
2006-07-18 07:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by MissRussia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, so if he said yes to you, you would have turned him down for your friend? Somehow I doubt you would have thought of her before yourself. So she liked the guy and went out with him, big deal. Find a new man.
2006-07-18 07:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUde he didn't deserve u U are to good for him and ur so called freind she is not really a freind she didn't care aboutur fellings the same thing happend to me a few months ago nd he ask my freind out nd she said NO cause she knew i liked hinm to!!!! Nd we are stil best freinds!!!!!!=)
2006-07-18 07:55:58 · answer #11 · answered by queen_benitez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋