I am skinnier and more in shape then the other girls in our grade, most of the girls dont like me b/c of this .I have a lot of guys that are friends and most of the girls dont like me for this either .. what should i do to make the other girls just chill ?
2006-07-18 07:47:07 · 18 answers · asked by abercrombieo44 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
theyre jealous, and therefore not people that you should care to be friends with! maybe if they had a little bit more self-confidence, theyd be happy for you for looking so good and having all the guys to yourself :) just be nice to them and mostly DONT let them get to you.
2006-07-18 07:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the girls that are hating on you.
Basically.... they're just jealous.
Society has put so much pressure on women to be super skinny. It's hard for most people to fit in that "perfect" mold. Because of genetics and metabolism... you happen to be one of the lucky girls. But you certainly don't need to apologize for the way you are built. Be proud of who you are. One piece of advice: Don't bring attention to the fact that you are skinny. There's nothing worse than a skinny person saying they need to lose weight. Saying something like that just rubs everyone elses nose in it, makes them feel even more inadequate about themselves and will make girls resent you even more. So..... keep your weight to yourself... be yourself and ignore the others. You can only control your own attitude.... not anyone elses.
2006-07-18 07:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by Primrose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, just be yourself. In life there are always going to be haters and people who are jealous of you for the most insignificant reason. You're skinny, so what! As long as your healthy and take good are yourself then there is nothing wrong. And so what if you have guys as friends. No one can dictate who you are. Don't lose sleep over these jealous people. You will find friends who love you just for you and that's all you can ask for.
2006-07-18 07:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are always going to be people that are jealous of you. Make sure that the reasons you listed are the actuall reasons these girls have a problem with you. Maybe they are intimidated by your looks or maybe they are standoffish because of your smug attitude. You never know. Anyways, try not to worry about what people think about you.
2006-07-18 07:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by Candycane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are underweight by a lot according to your doctor than try eating more meat more fatty foods but don't over do it but everyone else in you grade could be just fat
basically if you are under 70 pounds and above 4 foot 10 i would eat more
2006-07-18 07:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them, chances are they're jealous of you. I was the same way, always very petite and always had a lot of guy friends, and both of those have carried with me into my 20's and I consider myself extremely lucky, and so are you!
2006-07-18 08:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by Laura M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to chill, ur only 13... why are u worried about "jealous" girls. They probably don't like because of your personality, doesn't always have to do with looks.
2006-07-18 07:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by KingstonGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your envied, so what? Keep the guy friends and forget the girls trust me.. Girls back stab lots more than boys. Who wants to be friends with them after bein ill with you over that anyway? Forget them--give them something to be mad about by ignoring them.
2006-07-18 07:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by chinadoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything, let them deal with it. If you try to change or act differently they might notice that and talk bad stuff about you. Just be nice to everybody if they don't return the friendship then ignore them.
2006-07-18 07:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by fluff~out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you do bypass to the health club workout habitual I hate the females that get on the treadmills for like 5 minutes, and no one is going to make interesting of u and purely placed on shorts and a t-blouse and per chance a activities bra
2016-12-01 20:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by md.tosheeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋