2006-07-18 07:44:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should focus on the things that made you fall in love in the first place. No one is perfect and if you are expecting her to be you will be very diasappointed. She can not live up to that expectation either.
2006-07-18 07:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you live with someone, you see all their good and bad traits/habbits. But everyone has them, you have to be able to overlook it or see past it to the big picture, as long as she has more good qualities then bad, you're doing ok.
Besides, do you ever wonder if she has those same thoughts about you as well? I'm sure you have some rough edges.
2006-07-18 08:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about trying to remember that you're not perfect either there, Pal. Everyone has flaws...so what? Focus on the things that you LOVE about your wife instead...like her laugh or her smile and things like that.
2006-07-18 07:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then there done that, you will build up so much anger toward her that you can't stand to be around her, i would say if you want it to work out you need to tell her how you feel and what you want from her and see if you can make some changes, in my case i said nothing to her and it ended up that i filed for divorce because like i said it got where i could not stand her, i hope if you want it work please tell her how you are feeling before it is too late.
2006-07-18 08:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her. Tell her your concerns. Lack of communication is the #1 reason for drifting apart....
2006-07-18 08:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by eyematch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine, Jeff Goldblum, has been known to mumble "god damn rich cu*t" as he walked by your wife also.
2006-07-18 09:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am willing to bet your brain doesn't work that hard.
2006-07-18 08:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you love about her and you aren't perfect either
2006-07-18 08:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one judge, and it's not you.
2006-07-18 08:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋