My friends are fighting 4 my attention.they all want 2 come over & spend the nite on the same day but they dont like eachother. The they all call me complaining about the other 1s. It really dont make since to me but I just tell them to tell them not me because I dont want fo hear it. Should I do that or not?
2006-07-18 07:38:47 · 7 answers · asked by ftwtnb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should arrange a sleepover where you go else where, but they don't know you're gonna go elsewhere ... invite them both over without each other knowing it, then leave and go to your sleep over and tell them they need to sort it out.
2006-07-18 07:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a good idea for you to remain neutral. Try telling each one how bad it makes you feel when they try to put you in the middle. I had this problem with family members. I did what I told you to do and it worked. If they are your friends and care about you? They will listen to you. Good Luck.
2006-07-18 07:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by chitchenitza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get new friends! j/k. Tell them to work each other's issues out if they all want to hang out with you. Good luck!
2006-07-18 07:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by italian_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah just tell them not to call you if all there going to do is talk about the others.
2006-07-18 07:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow arent u lucky?!!!!
well tell them, if they wanna come over , then they have to adjust a lil, and well if they dont then, plan each day for them, so they can meet up with u, well popular gurl, i say gnite here!
2006-07-18 07:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by roman_fantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you doing right thing.the best place for you to be is out of it.you can be friends with whoever you want and they shouldnt put you in the middle.
2006-07-18 07:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by sassy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would if they want you as a friend they need to respect you as a friend
2006-07-18 07:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by boredgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋