my ex girlfriend says she still has feelings for me but i got a new girlfriend.she keeps tellin me to cheat on my current girlfriend just so i would be with her.what should i do. she keeps calling me and leaving me emails and following me almost everywhere i go.
2006-07-18 07:37:34 · 13 answers · asked by jayjay 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you want to be with your ex, break up with your current and get back together with your ex. I personally wouldn't advise this because your ex sounds like a stalker nut job.
If you want your ex to leave you the f*ck alone, you need to tell her to stop calling you and emailing you. Then you need to not take her calls and delete her emails if she continues. And if she is following you everywhere, that is stalking and if it continues after you have made it clear that you want it to stop, consider getting a restraining order or something.
2006-07-18 10:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would either one of you feel if you and the x were together and one of you cheated on the other? You current g/f trust you. Are you sure the the x just doesn't want to hook up with you for revenge. There is a reason she is your x - make sure it stays that way. Block her email and her phone number. Or if you cannot just delete them without listening to them.
2006-07-18 14:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her feelings are her issues, you have a new relationship and are on a new path, explain to her once and only once that you will not cheat on your girlfriend and that she must move, if you still have feelings for her but know that it will not work, cut ties with her for some time...if you want to give it another chance break up with your current GF and give it a second chance, but responsibly you should not cheat on your GF.
2006-07-18 14:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by Wheels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love this girl more than your current girl. lead with your heart but I have to tell you if the girl left you once you need to ask yourself how has the situation changed so that she will not break up with you again. Also she wants you to cheat so you have a person willing to cheat.
2006-07-18 14:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must be an ex for a reason. think before you act. if your current gf finds out how will she react. is it worth it in the long run. will your ex become your gf again? or is this just a fool around sort of thing? use your head chica.
2006-07-18 14:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She dumped you once, she'll dump you again. Walk away. If you are even thinking about cheating on your current gf, you should turn her loose too. Be single until you're ready to commit
2006-07-18 17:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her that it's to late and that you don't want the life you had with her. And that your priority is your girlfriend not her, and that even if she wants to remain friends your not going to break the trust of someone you truly love.
2006-07-18 16:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat on your girlfriend, duh. Tell the other girl that you have moved on and she should too. If you want to be with her then you need to break up with your girlfriend first. Following you everywhere you go is freaky, tell her to back off. You need space.
2006-07-18 16:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't want her basicly stalking you, you could get a restraining order against her. Or just tell her to get over you, get another person. Either way, good luck.
2006-07-18 14:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by Danny H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to lose the zero and get you a hero, baby!
2006-07-18 14:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Mark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋