2006-07-18 07:36:55 · 9 answers · asked by forrestmonkey93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont kno i hav these dreams bout me being a guy and with a girl with he layin in my arms lookin at the stars but then sometimes its the same dream but im a girl
2006-07-18 07:44:09 · update #1
Here's my point of view, for all that it matters: Just for perspective, I am a married man who just happens to have talk to a lot of people down the years about this issue.
Humans are sexual in nature. It's really that simple. If the human race was truly monogamous, then our overall society would reflect that (just like REAL monogamous creature do). Yet somewhere down the line we decided to suppress our nature and adopt this one-for-one life-style, and we have been struggling with it ever since. I mean... who do you know who has ONLY been with ONE person all of their life? It is the exception, and any other race evaluating us (say aliens came down and took a look) would call the human race as anything but monogamous.
This is also true with homosexuality. Humans are sexual. Whether you fall into the traditionally accepted role of "straight", or if you are bi, or even outright gay... it is all a representation of the human sex drive, and quest for companionship. Each person has their own unique spin on libido (for socially better or worse), and we have created terms (like "bi") to identify behaviors that contradict the moral rules (like monogamy).
Sexual curiosity and the subsequent exploration is a reflection of the normal course for the human sexual drive; which is to explore all things sexual... especially in an age where sexual freedom is at an all time high. This does not mean that everyone who is interested in sex will ultimately explore all options of sex. It means that as a whole, the human race will explore all facets of sexuality. That is just how we are. And if you happen to fit in where the general public calls "bi", then so what? As long as it is not harming others (like abusing children, rape, etc), then it is time for people to wake up and realize that we will never fit into the mold that has been cast for us as the Leave-it-to-Beaver moral objective.
So go ahead hon... find a sexy woman who shares your attraction and see if it doesn't blow your mind. :)
2006-07-18 08:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by adjezhri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bisexual is simply an act. It is perhaps better to view what it is you are being tempted to try.
Our bodies, minds and hearts play some serious tricks on us. I have found myself bored or stressed and then to cope, I dive into a fantasy land.
In the end, in order to keep my own sanity I have defined my boundaries. Again, these are my boundaries, and not yours...as such I am not passing judgement on you or anyone else...simply pointing out that my fantasies, tend to go outside of my boundaries. Since I have established my boundaries, I have a center that keeps me grounded and thus easier to make a good choice for me, in which I am able to live a guilt free life.
Best wishes to you as you analyze your reality and fantasy, as well as your center being and what is important to you for both the Long and Short term.
2006-07-18 07:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by warequalspeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think I was to...............but I than I thought about the sexual things that go on between two girls and I knew that I would never be able to do any of that . Before you come out in the open with this , just make sure that you are.
2006-07-18 07:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do no longer hear to Kayla. i be conscious of you're no longer in love, as a results of fact love is a plenty greater effective emotion than you're able to additionally carry close precise now, and it takes plenty greater effective than only seeing somebody and actual easily liking them. yet hear up, in spite of the indisputable fact that - only as a results of fact which you're no longer in love with somebody does no longer mean your thoughts are not valid. various young infants confuse themselves via thinking that their thoughts are not as actual as they sense only as a results of fact it ain't love. you are able to like somebody plenty and nonetheless have very much of emotion at the back of that. I used to get those abdomen drop thoughts and heart bypass a beat thoughts when I lusted after boys in H.S. yet enable me only say some thing - there is various teenagers available precise now that are only 'turning out to be' bisexual for the incorrect motives. the two they like being that style of outcast style of freak baby and the image that is linked with it - they like being the single which all and sundry talks approximately, etc. or additionally they do it to slot in, as a results of fact that's the hip new component now. have faith me, ladies did it whilst i replaced into in H.S. (that replaced into in basic terms like six years in the past) and that i'm specific boys in all probability do it now too. Be bisexual on condition which you rather mean it. additionally, if he seems fairly on the instant, be somewhat careful in case you do opt to enable him be conscious of the form you sense. you be conscious of ways human beings could be.
2016-12-10 09:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by clumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then it doubles your chances of getting a date
2006-07-18 07:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by cal-p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets find out
2006-07-18 07:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by joseacervantes86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi Curious doesn't mean Bi Sexual!
2006-07-18 07:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by SirenSings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think that's a problem?
2006-07-18 07:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by handydaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck .. and welcome to the new YOU !!
2006-07-18 07:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by kzzxguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋