Meaing of my dream?

Question

I'll make this short. I was kidnapped in my dream and saw werewolves. I went to dreammoods.com to interpret my dream. To dream that I was being kidnapped, donates of being trapped or restricted. Someone or some situation may be diverting my concentration and my attention away from my goals. To see a werewolf in my dream indicates that something in my life is not what it seems.
Here is what I realize. I do feel trapped and restricted.I also feel my attention stray away from my goals.
My boyfriend committed to me by proposing. I am really young. I haven't got to experience much. I've never been to parties etc...
He won't let me do much. He especially won't let me go to my friend, Brittany's, because she can be wild at times. He wants me to work for him when he gets his uncles company, and although I don't know what I want to be yet in life, I don't want to work under him.
Don't say break up with him. I love him to much and I don't want to break his heart. I said I'd never do that.

Perhaps dreams mean nothing to those who don't have them. =]

Answer 1

anyone who has to control you to trust you isnt worth being with. Im not saying dump him, just be aware. he is controlling if he wont let u do things and forbids you to see certain people. And u may regret it if you never lived your life when ur young. do what you feel is right but dont cheat yourself out of a life for someone else

especially working under him. tell him u dont want to and if he flips out, thats his problem. i hate people being controlled by douchebags. my girlfriends sister is just getting out of one of those, and she realizes now just how stupid she was being

Answer 2

Which is better: to break this man's heart now, or to break your life, your spirit, and your future?

It seems the dream symbol's interpretations clicked for you. This man is about to control your life and to "make" you do things you don't want to do.

Part of growing up is taking control of your life. Only when you fully possess yourself can you truly give yourself away. You have to make a "you" before there's a "you" to give away. You have to know who you are first. You're not there yet, and it looks like this man won't let you get there.

Tell him that you are not ready nor willing to marry him, that you still have a whole lot of life to live and a whole lot to learn before you commit to another. If he's not willing to back off nor to wait, dump him. The heartbreak will be worth it.

Answer 3

well dreams are usually your subconcious mind dont take too much, time in thinking about that, well if this guy is trying to put restriction on you know it means he has no trust in you and where there is no trust the relationship is not worth while, it looks like he wants to have you at all times in front of him thats why he want you to work along side of him,take time to reflect on this this is only the beginning of possesiveness any relationship that does not allow you to breathe is not worth while get out of it while you can, if that is to difficult have a heart to heart talk to him telling himin no uncertain terms that he has no control on your life and that you love him but you need your time and space for your self , if he agrees he has feelings for you but if he wants his own way, you now know what you have to do, now you can decide what you want with your life freedom or enslaved, best of luck and do try to make the right decession live by the head and not by the heart

Answer 4

ok, if u don't want to break up with him... u have to teach him how to make you feel fulfilled and satisfied with your relationship. if he is not doing that, what is keeping you there? you love him, but does he love you ENOUGH to make you happy? does he even have the ability to?? breaking up w/ him doesn't equal not loving him.. it means you may not have the same goals in life, and will not be able to carry out a lasting marriage. u may still always love him, but not enough to compromise every last thing you want for yourself and your life. it is unfair for him to ask that of you. eventually you will not respect him and get burned out from giving and giving w/o receiving anything from him. if he respected and loved you, he would trust you and make you feel FREE, not stuck w/ a ball and chain!!! i learned that marriage is actually opposite of being chained up.... it *should* be something that allows you to give and receive LOVE freely, w/ no restrictions because you TRUST that person to accept and appreciate and honor your commitment. w/o that trust is a sad, scary, Wolf-like husband who preys on your weaknesses.... and no one would want that for you or any other person, may it be man or woman.

Answer 5

He sounds controlling and possessive. It will only get worse over time, especially if you marry him. If you do marry him, you will probably end up resenting him for controlling you . Take time apart, experience life, figure out what YOU want in life, not what he wants you to be. It sounds like you're already questioning yourself whether or not you want to be with him. Not Good.

Answer 6

The dream means nothing

Answer 7

i'm gonna attempt to work out if i'm able to decode your dream slightly. First, i'd favor to say i'm sorry your boyfriend is an unfeeling a$$hollow. frequently, even as people are damaged-hearted, they commence to dream about their ex better 1/2 afterwards. targets are like fantasies we smash out in, and they instruct our innermost desires... let's commence with you and your boyfriend walking right into a wooded area. In my recommendations, I have a tendency to work out the wooded area as an unknown position you are able to get actual lost in, so the clarification why you dreamt you and him were interior a wooded area replaced into because the destiny is unknown and also you do not precisely recognize what's going to take position. You were wearing a white gown, and to me, it represents your favor of marriage (considering wedding ceremony gowns have a tendency to be white) to him. The dream itself replaced into sunny and fantastically bright because you anticipated your destiny with him to be vivid and positive. i'm not particular what the butterflies ought to represent at this aspect. i imagine they represent the feeling you and your boyfriend received't have communicated effectively, and that you both purely silenced your self with what ought to have appeared sweet and promising. the actual undeniable actuality that this replaced into on your attitude replaced into because the project in authentic life has affected you very a lot. you may nevertheless have thoughts on your boyfriend and favor to face him on your eyes.

Answer 8

It does not seem like you still have problem with your dream. You just want to share your thought about your dream.

glad you vent it out too in reality

Answer 9

You have the answer already. And when you have had enough you will make a change in your life. You asked a question.....you answered the question.......and then you told us what not to say to give you any advice.

So........YOU have the answer. Now YOU go deal with it.

Answer 10

talk to him honestly about how you feel,if he loves you he will let you grow as a person.if you are feeling this way before you get married it will only get worse.his controlling behavior wont get any better.