2006-07-18 07:18:44 · 12 answers · asked by Prettygirl_20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Time will help. Four years is a long time, but be glad it wasn't longer.
2006-07-18 07:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by heather k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow yourself to go completely through the grieving process. It will take time and jumping into another love relationship is NOT recommended until you heal. Or you will likely bring unresolved issues from the ended relationship into the new one. There is a good book titled "How to Survive the Loss of a Love" that is excellent - I've used it several times in the healing process.
2006-07-18 14:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by T M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds.
It's important for you to get all your emotions out though - anger, sadness, etc. A good cry and/or scream always indicated to me that I was ready for the healing process to begin. If you harber feelings of anger or hurt, you'll never get there.
Next - just stay busy...treat yourself...take pride in activities you can only do when you're single (i enjoyed watching tv naked and drinking directly out of the juice carton). Before I knew it I was over my heartache.
Good Luck!
2006-07-18 14:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Kristin G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would definitely be my own best friend and have fun NOT having anyone to answer too! I know the pain of breaking up is hard but sometimes freedom is fun because you can do whatever you want to!
2006-07-18 14:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mary B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's hard. Well, surround yourself with people who are closest to you and who you love, it might be hard at first for you, but you must go out after awhile and meet new people. Not necessarily to get serious with but until you feel like you are over that relationship.
2006-07-18 14:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. You'll miss him and all that but as the days go on you'll get stronger. Go on with your life.
2006-07-18 14:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by musicisme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just finished a song for you,: lyrics, melody and notation.
"A Heart Breaks So Quietly" POP
Don't know if anyone will ever hear it but maybe.
2006-07-18 14:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find out, let me know! I am in the same boat! lol...Time heals all, and another lover will make it easier!
2006-07-18 14:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by RandyFWiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, sweetie............
They say it takes half the amount of time you were together to recover. Stay strong and don't go back!!!! I did and it was hard but now I am with the love of my life who puts my ex to shame.........and he's alone.
2006-07-18 14:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time Time Time.... thats all thats helped me just dont let it turn u bitter towards loving again
2006-07-18 14:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by josh m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋