I am 20 years of age and like men but 2 years ago me and a friend had messed around a little bit. Well I wanna know how I could go about asking my best friend of 3 years I wanna have sex with her? She dont think I like females at all, But I wanna have sex with a female so bad it hurts. I dont know what to say to her or anything. or really how to get things started help out!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-18 07:15:42 · 16 answers · asked by jdnsmama1 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
she's your friend right? so tell her how you feel you may not know she's probably attracted to you too but afraid to let you know take the first step.
2006-07-18 07:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Pinada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the same female you messed around with before? If so, it would make it easier to say what was on your mind. If it is not the same woman, you risk losing your best friend if they are freaked-out by it or grossed-out.
However, if your friend is open to being with another woman, you could say I am interested in you. What would you think about taking our friendship to a new different level?
2006-07-18 14:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanette K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kk well 1st tell her u like her more than a best friend and always have and were just scared to tell her like the first answer said kkiss her see what her reaction is if u dont mind try asking may i kiss u than hopefully it goes smoothly from there a lot of girls think that guys who are their best friends dont like em as more and most of the time they like the guy more also just never mentioned it thinking it would ruin the friendship try talking to her about it first i hope she feels the same way and if she dont then hopefully ur friendship wont ruin
2006-07-18 14:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Curious Stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you messed around with her before, all u should do is bring up the topic again just like a regular discussion of old stories and see how she reacts to it. If she reacts negatively, then I suggest u seek another partner rather than destroying the relationship you have with her.
2006-07-18 14:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by crazy_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you aware that it is unnatural to have sex with someone who is the same sex as yourself? This is the truth sweetheart.
God created man and then woman to join as one in marriage. He says that it is an abomination for his children (us) to be with someone of the same sex.
I don't know if you will feel good at all about being with a woman. The guilt will only make your life worse. Try praying to God and ask Him to guide you. If we confess all the bad things we say, think, and do to God - He will truly forgive us. With a clean heart you will experience a wonderful sense of joy inside - Believe me. Start thinking about good things for yourself today. Ask God to help take away the temptaion and He will make a way out for you to get through it.
I will pray for you. That is my best advise for you. With Love, Me.
2006-07-18 14:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by HearTheTruth 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say just tell her!!! If it is the same friend that you messed around a little bit with then she might like you too!!! So just do it!!
2006-07-18 14:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by Caitlyn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a heart to heart chat with her, you never know it could be the change for the better for a relationship. But do you want sex with her because you want to experience sex, or do you want sex with her because you care about her and this is a progression of your relationship with her.
Tell her that you are starting to change your feelings towards her and have a heart to heart with her and see what happens.
2006-07-18 14:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by Searcher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with a "girls night out"... have some drinks and then make your move..... she probably won't say no if you messed around before and she might actually feel the same way you do. If she doesn't..... it's okay, you were drunk! have fun.
2006-07-18 14:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by BrownTown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are just friends, think about it first, you might ruin this friendship! You say you want a "female", so go find someone else.
2006-07-18 14:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by mona 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave the chick alone. She obviously doesn't like other chicks. Don't be a kiss rapist. Go find a man, they love aggressive/assertive women and you'd have more fun!
2006-07-18 14:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by sami 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋