Hello
I am engaged with my fiance for two years.we were living before in Greece.He is Canadian and me i am from Greece.he has alot of stress all day and is very violant.never smiles.likes to do thing only when he wants.he said he will help me financially buntill i find job.he is imagening things that are wrong and to make me scream
closes my mouth and slaps me .says he like it.i can not go back in my country.i have no legal papers for there.heeeeeeeeeelp.
2006-07-18 07:15:03 · 12 answers · asked by mariana i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I work as a counselor at a domestic violence shelter. The next time he hits you, CALL THE POLICE (911). Make sure they document your injuries - even if it's a faint red spot on you. Get a police card with a case number. With that police report, case #, and injury documentation, you can be eligible for a U-Visa. Also, the police can help you get in touch with a victim advocate and find a nearby domestic violence shelter, where you can live for free while you get on your feet. Questions? Write me.
2006-07-18 07:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by AmieMRoberts 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you need to leave today. There are a lot of men out there ( and he is one of them) that take advantage of women vulnerable women. Your vulnerability is you are from another country. There are shelters that you can go to and they will set you up with a home a job and also money to get you back on your feet. The most important thing to do when you leave is to never talk to him again, he will tell you everything you want to hear to get you back. It isn't because he loves you it is because he wants to control you and beat you. The other thing you need to do is go to the hospital have them examine you and then they will call the police and then you can get a restraining order put on him. Don't worry he won't go to jail for anymore then one night and then he will just be charged with assault and be on probation for a year or so. I know this because I have been there. GET OUT because one day he will either kill you or you could end up killing him. Go to one of the shelters they are in the phone book.
2006-07-18 14:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by julie0579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact the police, a women's shelter or an organization that specializes in domestic violence. This behavior he has is not acceptable! It will only get worse if you stay. You need to remove yourself from the situation and find help. There are plenty of places to get help, don't wait around until something worse happens to you. Stress is not an excuse for violence. We all have stress and no one should put their hands on anyone else, ever.
2006-07-18 14:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by manderin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need to do is stop calling him your boyfriend. And don't call him ur fiance either. And whatever you do......DO NOT MAKE HIM YOUR HUSBAND.
If he is doing this now, it will only get worse. LEAVE HIM. Go to a shelter. Call the police. Do whatever it takes to get away from him, or he WILL kill you. Relationships like this cannot last forever.
2006-07-18 14:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't take his ****. No man should lay a hand on a woman, u deserve better. find a job, and get out. it will only get worse. i've had alot of friends who got beat by their husbands or bf. and it will get worse, i am serious. get out. go to a friend or family member. the next time he slaps or hits you, CALL THE POLICE. don't take his ****! A MAN WHO HITS A LADY IS NO MAN AT ALL. it the respect he should give. another thing is you said he likes it. that's another sign that it will get worse. get out!!
2006-07-18 14:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by armysoldier 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really lying.... now i am very sure....
Go to work if you want money dont get try to get out of nice people here....
Everyone be carefull as she is lying this is all not true what she is talking about ....
You must be a very bad person to do that....
2006-07-18 16:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his *** before he kills you. Do you have any friends? Stop depending on him financially and get a job. Work at McDonalds's if you have to until you get on your feet. But do leave him!!
2006-07-18 14:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by kitabanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to contact the police Immediately
2006-07-18 14:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by cck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you get your family to help, or police? or a womans victim help?
2006-07-18 14:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look babe just learn to stand up for yourself. you must value yourself first....and the rest will follow. do'nt wait for miracles. plan your escape.
2006-07-18 14:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋