Do you know someone choosing a livestyle based on avoiding stereotypes?

Question

Do you know the nerd trying to be cool or someone trying to be someone they are definitely not? Please explain.

Please answer the question using an example person you know. Thanks everyone.

Answer 1

Oh ya, I have a friend Ive known for 9 years. He is now married and turned into what his wife is. I mean, how do you maintain respect for someone, when they don't have respect for them selves. If you cannot live your life with someone weather it be a wife or a friend, hell, even family, and not be yourself, what fricken good are ya. People feel they need to conform to standards that are fads, whats a fad and why do they exists. Where the hell is the originality and the respect that should come with this rare way of living.

Answer 2

Yeah me, people constantly tell me I have what it takes to go far in life but I have grown sick of people constantly questioning my beliefs when we're suppose to be living this freedom to believe anything that we want.
Do you know the geek who chases a spinny shiney object that constantly changes as fashion/general opinion dictates? The one who seeks the symbol that stays the same in a reflection and speaks to the subconcious and eventually causes "road rage" from \\\ when the car doesnt go " Vroom Vroom " Like the commercial says?
You're a fuken 30 second commercial man, so do your song and dance and just evolve with the next fad / opinion that arises.
Next time you have that falling spinning dream just before you go to sleep from being exausted from working so hard...and pardon the irony, to buy **** u dont really want or need. By the way, Tyler Durden was just a bad dresser tryna be retro, there really is nothing that sets apart the white race besides sheete over their faces and the watches on their wrists.
When you find someone you can get along with...is it because he is wearing something that you yourself have on? SO why dont you get your socially acceptable azz back to the cat walk and wait for another black hating homogenized gay to make you cool before you miss out on the next trend...um right said fred?

Answer 3

That sort of lifestyle lends itself to a problem. In order to dedicate your life against something, it's necessary to focus entirely on the opposite. Therefore, it still controls your life negatively.

Answer 4

i don't know anyone in my life right now who's doing that. but when i was younger, i did. it's sad. i think some people do it thinking that it will make them "fit in". when you're a teenager nobody wants to be the "odd man out". but let me tell you, when you become an adult, the mature thing to do is be yourself. it's then that you're able to branch out find your authentic self and be who want to be and not what you think you should conform to!

Answer 5

Me. don't try to be someone I'm not, just be me.walk talk and dress like me.

Answer 6

Thanks