Is it true that if you think you're attractive, other people will to?

Question

even if u are ugly

Answer 1

People forget about if you are "ugly" if you show a genuine caring attitude toward others. Find something nice to say to them but make the compliments genuine. Be yourself and like yourself. Walk with confidence. Believe me, as people get to know the real you, they forget their first impression and see you as normal.

Have you ever wondered what a sexy woman sees in an ugly man? She sees the real man. He becomes handsome to her eyes.

You are not ugly, if that is what you may be thinking. God doesn't make junk. He gives us what we need to succeed. But we have to find the right attitude to make it work. You may have to try harder but you can do it. Think about all your good qualities and concentrate on using them. Be more concerned with making others happy and they will be drawn to you because you make them feel good. Remember to let yourself be happy as well. A joyful attitude is contagious. As they spend more time around you, they will begin to see you as attractive. Notice I did not say sexy. I'm not promising miracles but definitely attractive. But through all of this, don't forget how special you, yourself are. Be confident but not arrogant. Learn to like yourself and others will follow.

I am overweight but I like myself. The qualities I feel are important in a person are, good grooming, a genuine concern for the well being of others and feeling comfortable in one's own skin.

I carry myself as I did when I was a young woman. I am totally at ease with other people because I am confident in who I am.

I, as I stated earlier, am overweight but it hasn't hurt my success with the opposite sex. I have ample opportunities for relationships.

My genuine liking of others shows in the way I treat them and I find that I am considered attractive, in spite of being overweight.


You can do it. I have faith in you.

PS. Have you ever really looked at Madonna? Take away the hype and the attitude and she is not even pretty. But she projects that aura with her skillfull makeup, costumes and her ATTITUDE. People see her as sexy because she thinks she is. Think of her, when you want to be attractive. If you think you are, then others will too.

Answer 2

Most of the people go by outwardly appearance...but it can only last that long..once they get to know you and see the good qualities in you, they will appreciate you more... otherwise they'll realize that you are all hype and no substance and try to avoid you, and as the one of the characters, Portia, in Shakespeare's Merchant of Venice says:

All that glitters is not gold

Or

The grass is always green on the other side of the fence, until you cross-over.

Answer 3

Of course that's true. If you think you're attractive then you will come off as being confident so people will not really see the ugly.They won't pay attention to that part, they'll look at what you portray.

Answer 4

Yes and no.
Attractiveness is about 50% attitude, 25% presentation, and 25% "raw material".

Someone who just average can clean up real nice, and feel good about themselves, and radiate attractiveness.

However, if a person who technically has excellent features hides under their messy hair, wears unflattering clothes, and shuffles in the shadows, they will not be attractive.

Posture, confidence and attitude will prevail over mother nature's jokes.

Answer 5

Yes, up to a point. I mean, let's face it, Quasimodo could never get a babe like that in real life. And what princess would actually kiss a frog? You gotta have some limits here.

Answer 6

Yes, I think confident people present better, come across better and look better. Everyone has the power to be confident.

Answer 7

Yes, definitly, self-confidence makes people attractive.

Answer 8

yes. it is very subjective and people respond to confidence and projection of personality and the aura of an individual

Answer 9

It's more complicated than that, but confidence definitely helps.

Answer 10

confidence is attractive.