what if you are going to have a baby, how do you tell your parents?

Question

i am 15

Answer 1

I don't think theres a certain way to tell. You know your parents best, what would you think the best approach would be? Being 15 yrs old is going to be hard to tell you parents no matter what. My mother had me at 15, it most definately isn't an easy thing to do!! You're still a baby yourself. Be careful in the future and use protection girl!!!!!

Answer 2

gurl, i am sorry for you, b/c you are so young and not yet ready to have a child. what you can do is probably write a letter to your parents and let them find it when you are at school, or do you have an aunt that you are close to or a other relative that you can talk to, who can be there with you when you tell your parents.

Also you need to start thinking about what you are you to about school ? and do you plan to keep the baby? what about the father of the baby? and how are you going to take care of the baby (if you paln to keep the baby) is the father going to help?
These are probably some of the question that your parents are going to be asking you, so it is best that you have some answers for them instead of saying "i dont know", that would probably upset them off more than how they are upset.

Well I wish you the best of luck. Hope everything turns out ok.

Answer 3

Your parents love you more than anything on this earth. I think you will be surprised by their support and love for you during this time. A baby is something to be joyful about. You are young, and maybe you made a mistake, but it is gone past that now. You need to get a handle of what is going on and allow your parents to help you out. Everything looks a lot worse right now because it is a secret. Life will be much better when you accept your decision to have a baby and know that your family will support you.

Answer 4

have you ever talked to them yet? tell them in a calm unemotional way. clarify to them that when the newborn reaches college that there are some issues that they are anticipated to do. WRITE up a sheet in both English and Spanish of what you assume each newborn to be able to do, and then deliver it domicile with each newborn. supply the youngsters "homework" to drink out of a familiar cup, and feed themselves. so a techniques because the lavatory is in touch, there ought to correctly be different subject matters. Is it a difficulty for you if the lads favor to take a seat, they could finally end up being the purely adult males who positioned the seat down. I have properly-known some 4 3 hundred and sixty 5 days olds who're nevertheless in diapers; some will use the potty at domicile, yet are afraid to apply public restrooms, or grownup length bogs. you'll favor to talk with the mum and father to understand what the inspiration of the project is.

Answer 5

If you feel safe with your parents, you should just sit down with them and talk to them calmly, maybe have some ideas in your mind of what you want to do. Still go to school? Get married? Give the baby up for adoption etc... (please do not consider abortion, because your baby deserves to live and there are millions of people who want a baby who can care for yours) If you can't trust your parents or their reaction, tell them in a public place, or with someone who can protect you if they get super pissed and try to beat you. Good Luck and God Bless you!

Answer 6

i wrote my parents and my fiance's parents a letter explaining my plan and all steps im going to take they had to read it all before any reaction so they heard me out and they were proud that i had a plan i was 16 and the day after i told them i had a miscarriage but after that me and my mother built such a stronger relationship good luck and you may want to wait a few weeks to be safe you dont want to tell them too soon since complications are common but make sure you get it all checked out dr. have confidentiallity rules so they wont tell until you do

Answer 7

Tell the one your closest to first , then maybe that one will help you tell the other one. Try to work out a plan, before you talk to them.Don't go in to hysterics or add a lot of drama while your talking to them. You are now officially an adult! Good Luck!

Answer 8

Tell them their baby is having a baby. I feel sorry for your parents. Too bad you didn't wait because now your life is really going to go downhill. Was sex really worth it?

Answer 9

Thats a difficult one. You are to young and you are going to loose your child hood. I had kids at 21 and lost alot not realizing it till later in life. There are alot of programs out there to help but your looking at a life time of difficulties... financially, relationship wise, educationally, ect it goes on and on...the only way to tell them is to just do it

Answer 10

Sit down with them and have a very grown-up talk about this. Expect them to be angry, sad, fearful, disappointed, etc. Once the initial shock is over you will need to discuss your options and create a plan.