2006-07-18 06:35:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yes....old enough to date.....wouldn't suggest anything sexual though...but kissing and stuff is fine.
2006-07-18 06:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by jojodaqtpie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well 14 is an interesting age. I dont know if I would say that you should date alone, but you are old enough to have some sort of interaction with girls/boys - RIGHT??? If your parents object to you going out alone, why don't you invite your girlfriend/boyfriend to dinner with your whole family at first? That way, your parents can build a relationship with your sweetie and you can build their trust. So when you REALLY start dating alone - they may be inclined to extend your curfew or something.
As a second step, you could ask your bf/gf on a "group date". That way, you'll have the protection and security of your friends as you become more familiar with dating. I remember when I started, I was extremely nervous and having my friends there helped to break the ice.
MORE IMPORTANTLY - before you start dating, make some decisions about yourself (i.e. what your expectations of dating are, what things you like to do, what your personality is like, etc.). Decide if you are strong enough to handle AND how you will handle all of the potentially negative impacts of dating (i.e. rejection, jerks, sexual pressure, etc.). This will save you a lot of drama. It could also help give you more "good" dates, than disasterous ones...and believe me, the latter is NOT fun.
Good Luck - vote me as best answer!! :-)
2006-07-18 06:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by Kristin G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right age to start dating is when one is stable, matured and ready to date. And 14 isn't so fun an age to date, cause at 14 someone is still young and doesn't need to use up energy and time on things like dating.
If you ask me, better to focus on studies at 14, get a good job when one's grown up and then start dating, cause you're gonna pay for the bill from your own pocket so nobody can stop you from dating anyone. And it's more fun to date when you're an adult and you make decisions for yourself.
2006-07-18 06:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by longtailedmonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would b old enough 2 start dating as long as the boy/girl is not 2 old or 2 young for u
2006-07-18 07:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by courtney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 14 and i date, mostly group dates lots of fun
2006-07-18 07:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by dont-ask-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish that's how my parents were but unfortunatly I have never been on a single date.Or as a matter of fact they don't even let me hang out with friends,uh.As of right now I hate my life!Please mom and dad give me some damn freedom.By the way im 16.5 years old.
2006-07-18 06:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the person and how mature the person is. Not every 14 year old acts the same way.
2006-07-18 06:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by Share Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its definitly old enough to go to the movies or sumthin but ne further than that, wait until marriage
2006-07-18 08:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by mk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! I believe that no child should be allowed to date until they are at least 16. or should be with out their parents for that matter until that age.
2006-07-18 07:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is!
14 yr old kids are old enough to date..i think 12 yr old kids are able to date!!!...parents are just being to strict these day,,,
2006-07-18 07:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by YEAH! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait until you know what you want and need and 14 is just a little too young
2006-07-18 06:39:52 · answer #11 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋