My GF dump me after 14 months of dating. She was 16 and I was19 and I was graduating from High school. Then in June she decided to end it. I am still heart broken she was my first loveand I still love her very much and I am afraid to lose her completely without another chance to be an actual couple. We only got to see each other during school and the school had no PDA thing and we didn`t have many chances to see each other ouside of school. So I don`t know what to do Should I try to get back with after a couple of months or move? and how if your answer is to move on
2006-07-18 06:33:57 · 25 answers · asked by flaw236 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
16 is legal in my state
2006-07-18 06:50:35 · update #1
TIME
2006-07-18 06:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by green is clean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first one hurts the most man. I dated this girl in high school for 2 years.... same story. But don't worry... it WILL get better.
I didn't talk to her for 2 years. If you want to get over it (which is what it sounds like) you've got to separate yourself from her. Seeing her will hurt, talking to her will hurt... hell! Thinking of her will hurt.
You need to get over it... If you're graduating and heading off to college... THAT IS A WHOLE NEW WORLD MAN!!! The #1 adivce offered by a lot of people is: Don't take a girlfriend into college... it never works, and it holds you back from social opportunities.
So, separate ... that's the best way I know.
2006-07-18 13:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like it was much of a relationship to start. Sounds like she was just going along for the ride. Go on with your life. Time is the only thing that will heal a broken heart and tho' it seems so difficult right now like you can't go on, by and by you will find the strength to go on and eventually it won't hurt so much. There are so many other fish in the sea and I think you deserve better.
2006-07-18 13:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by musicisme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that you should move on. Why, did she leave you the 1st time? Usually the 2nd time around never works. Unless both parties are really to make changes to improve the relationship. But, I also notice that you said that she was your 1st love, MAN open your eyes your 1st love, you 1st breakup at your age it won't be your last 9 times out of 10 high school sweethearts are just what they are.... high school
2006-07-18 13:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by Ipsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry the end all relationship can and do end I have had 4. The last woman had 2 aboritions which literally drove me insane. So it could be worse.
It is big but you will over come it or well be sad for the rest of your life, also if you are rebounding to other women you will be crushed.
2006-07-18 13:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way to fix this with duct tape like timmy says.
The best thing for mending a broken heart is time and a new love interest
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If you can't be with the one you love, Buddy, love the one you are with.
If she dumped you, it's not easy to go looking for a replacement, but she needs time away from you and it might be forever. You should come to realise this asap.
You might as well find someone else to occupy the time with and take your mind off of her.
Who knows, you might end up better off.
2006-07-18 13:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by mickyyyyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age could play a factor in this...let it go its not the end of the world you will find someone..possibly in college with the same interests as you...your ex may have wanted to end it because you are no longer in HS and shes insecure....Ask her if she would like to remain friends if not move on
2006-07-18 13:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be strong and move on. Accept that it is over & you will never be her boyfriend again. Only time can mend a broken heart. You need to distract yourself with other friends & interests until you feel stronger & meet someone else.
2006-07-18 13:37:48 · answer #8 · answered by savagescorpio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on and find another person who values and completes you. The lorger you are apart the easyer it will get to forget her. If she broke up with you it means thats there is someone out there better! Hope you find your true love!Goodluck:)!
2006-07-18 13:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by Hot Venezuelan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. first of all, does she luv u still? if she does there is hope and if she doesnt, u're ok. go on with ur life and wait for anotha chick. yes, it hurts like hell, but u'll live. and dont let it taint ur next relationship. fresh starts. that goes for this gurl or the next u get with. fresh start. good-luck, boi.
2006-07-18 13:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by Boss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to suggest that you move on. THe best way is to find "another love" someone who is worthy of you. I wish you all the best.
2006-07-18 13:37:55 · answer #11 · answered by josievan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋