Is this a problem?
2006-07-18 06:31:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in News & Events ➔ Current Events
to add more information, it may be because I'm like the don juan of cyber sex. i also have a deep seeded mistrust of women online, and mistrust turns me on sexually.
2006-07-18 06:40:52 · update #1
I dunno... I wouldn't think cyber sex is more satisfying than real sex but to each his own, I guess. As long as you don't have a gf you're cheating on, I guess there's no problem.
2006-07-18 06:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
No its not. You see, I originally was really desperate and finnally had sex with a lot of girls once I got into the "player game"--I finnally realized how retarded the whole procedure was, and simply went for a compatible partner, I found tricks and found the erotic sensation was just as good and even better than really hot babes. Finnally, using hypnosis technics, recreation in head, porn and cybersex (I experimented), you can learn to be calm and never feel the need to go and search a sexual partner again.
The reason is this:
The real reason sex is so good is not the orgy, you have the same feeling in masterbation. The real reason it is good is because you are "empowering" yourself over another individual, and that individual, after seeing what a "cool playea you are" will want to fondle your great genetic tank of supremacy----
in other words, the girl falls in love with your "coolness" and she feels compelled to do whatever you want because you are so cool and such a king.....this feeling of empowerment is what makes real sex better than masterbation...you first have to feel it though to recreate it.
Once you can recreate this feeling, and satisfy your animal lower brain, which is in all honesty (to all women who read this post), very weird, you are free to seek emotional fullfillment with more "intelligent" and compatible partners with your higher brain. I am a lot more happy now.
One of the most important things however people, is to emphasize to get rid of your "desperation" or incredible need for the opposite sex...which causes you to do irrational deeds. Why? because sex is not THAT MUCH better than masterbation...once you do it, your like. I need more...Its more of a social thing really, of brag power, and who is the better winner and who is the loser than pleasure.
Every time you feel the urge to ask a girl out, out of sexual impulse, simply go and masterbate, and see how much better you will feel....
then there is the emotional aspect, the aspect of being appreciated as a human being...
This you can satisfy with your family and friends and with compatible partners....you do not need a red hot babe (I used to chase them) to get your rocks off.
You feel appreciated through friends and compatible partners....that will make you feel appreciated and satisfy that lonely hunger in your heart.
and finnally, sexually, you can simulate and satisfy with your compatible partner...preferably in person.
If you cannot, online is good too, but you need to become more avid at mental techniques. You have to realize life is just a mechanical process. Do what you are supposed to do for your sanity, for your survival in today's society is based on the first premise.
2006-07-18 13:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just an observation:
Fantasy relieves tension and allows you to not have to deal with the rejection and unpleasantries you'd risk if you were in a real life situation.
If your quality of life is compromised (it gets in the way with daily duties) or you just feel you're doing it too much, you probably need to look at what void in your life the cybersex might be filling.
Good luck.
2006-07-18 13:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Rewsna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about the emotional and spiritual needs that sex fulfills? You won't get that from a flat screen monitor
2006-07-18 13:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude ...
Do you enjoy looking at a perfectly ripe fruit than actually eating one?
It's not "bad" to enjoy cyber anything than real anything. It's just not as good enough
2006-07-18 13:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by go-green-save-earth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with enjoying cybersex, but if you are not able to enjoy real life sex then yes, you have a problem.
2006-07-18 13:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by Bloed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God provided us the system of family just to have sex with our spouse.That is the only true enjoyable sex in which your body mind both relaxed.So have sex with your spouse and be righteous to GOD,because God don't look our face as we humans do,but he look our hearts.
2006-07-18 13:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by malcom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You could be cybering with a twelve year old, gross.
2006-07-18 13:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by shaun1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its alot safer, plus you dont have to deal with trying to get rid of some pig afterwrds. we are all beautiful online.
2006-07-18 13:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mox Nix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a different partner.
2006-07-18 13:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by jewelking_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋