if you have have you ever gone thru with it and if so how did it work out
2006-07-18 06:31:29 · 10 answers · asked by neooralmale 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my BF is married. His wife knows about us. In fact she and i are very close friends. our situation is a bit different though. they lead a very open marriage and we are in a alternative lifestyle. And we are all very happy.
for the most part in the vanilla world (non alternative) i would have to say that most married men (and women) who have affairs are never going to leave their spouses. If they were ... they would have filed for divorce already. Be very careful if you are having an affair and protect your heart.
Good luck,
2006-07-18 06:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by purple dove 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am thinking about it, we talk about what we want out of life, but i try to force in my head every day that he is never going to leave his wife and kids for me and i really cant have a future with him, and what i reap, i will sow, and later on down the line, someone will try to have an affair with my husband, and i really dont want that to happen.
So i will say that having an affair with a married man or woman is wrong cause just remember this, one day you will have to get married, and the same thing that you do to that person's husband or wife, will come right back and haunt you.
2006-07-18 06:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i a m married & i am having an affair with a married man.only thing is he is married to me. & yes our affair is going just fine. we have been together for nearly 30 years. with all its odds & evens it is going strong.& we have decided to continue our affair till the end come what may.& our children know about it.
2006-07-18 06:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's it to you anyway? what if you are married or will get married in the future, would you mind your wife having an extra-marital affair with another man?
2006-07-18 06:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was married when we met. In our defense he married his first wife because she got pregnant, not out of love.
Statistics say that 97% of marriages beginning in adultery don't survive. Fortunately we are in the small 3%, been married for almost a decade.
2006-07-18 06:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by Bev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a lady however I did have an expedition with a married man. I was single at the time and I see nothing wrong with it. i would personally never cheat on my partner however if I am single and looking for a booty call, It is not my problem that his wife can't please him (probably because he is gay). They need to work that out between them... just a booty call for me.
2006-07-18 06:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've considered it. My cousin use to do it a lot. She liked the non-comitment. I don't think it ever works out the way you want. If you don't want anything but sex, then feelings get in the way. And if you get in a relationship with them, then you can't get past how you got together. My advice - don't do it.
2006-07-18 06:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by goddess17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it, ya stupid. i dont care wat they say, THEY WILL NOT leave their "perfect" life 4 u. all u doin is makin ur life difficult. if u get attached to this guy, think about it: u'll be spending holidays and trips alone, u'll have to adjust ur schedule at times 4 him, and guilt. its not worth it. and wat about the wife? she has feelns 2. then there could b kids and stuff...
no. find some1 u can call u're own and chill. dealin with married ppl is hell on earth. and its a experience that no one needs 2 go thru. do wats rite and leave him alone.
2006-07-18 06:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by Boss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to have only one affair,that will be better and bring Peace and enjoyment in life.
2006-07-18 06:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope....
2006-07-18 06:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋