Hey, I think you are worried that people love you only for looks.
I seemed to be having the same problem for a while - I know how it feels: pretty girl hanging on a computer on Y.A. to prove herself that she also has a personality and not only looks!
Listen to me, luvvie, don't worry so much about it - try to calm down, behave normally... I mean BE YOURSELF out there, too, and NEVER, I mean, never take advantage of your looks. This way you will not hear those bad comments ever again.
Focus on being a nicer person in the future and eventually they will notice that you are much more than just a baby-doll.
Another thing: give a chance to all kinds of guys and smile, encourage them... they will see that you are approachable and you will have a nicer, more fulfilling life!
:)
2006-07-18 11:30:27
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answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4
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Really good question by the way.....In a way you are soooo right but at the same time, some people aren't true to themselves whether it's over the web , at home, or work, or at play! I think some of the users look at the pictures and names and do/don't answer a question because of the skin color or the ethnicity. I had a guy just cut me up for being BLACK!! No matter how my opinion about his question went. So it doesn't apply to all. But as long as we can get more users like you on here to value, it'll work all over the net perhaps?????!!!!!!
LOL & Be Good...
2006-07-18 13:35:46
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answered by feva 3
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The image of a person is built on the basis of the thoughts which a person comes to know through answers.This image may be totally different what it is to the people to whom the person know personally.Only few people in the world can love a person on the basis of his thoughts.
2006-07-18 13:31:14
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answered by suchsi 5
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I don't just love it, but you do make a very interesting point. Actually, I think it's kind of sad that only over the internet will people take the chance to be exposed to other's opinions regardless of sex, creed, race, appearance etc...
2006-07-18 13:28:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, I agree with you. I have actually got to talk to some people on this site because of certain answers that I give or they give. Really interesting
2006-07-18 13:36:47
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answered by knitting guy 6
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i never really thought about it like this but we really do take time to answer questions in real ways...and who knows how some of these people look...but that doesnt matter...b/c we are helping each other with our problems....and we can get good advice from real true people...good question because i really do just LOVE it! thanx.
2006-07-18 13:32:14
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answered by Anonymous
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I beg to differ. You can't really know anyone's personality over the Internet. I could be Karla Homolka for all you know.
But yes, you're right, physical appearances don't count here.
2006-07-18 13:29:58
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answered by ? 6
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No, I think our avatars still play a factor! (jk!) I am opinionated about things, or to say, I have opinions, and this is the closest I get to a real conversation. The people I work with ... snooze. My best friend ..... not all there.
2006-07-18 13:29:40
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answered by and yet, so .... 3
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Nce question. And, yes I do. You are correct. That it only applies to the people who are really sincere in their responses, though.
2006-07-18 13:29:54
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answered by Ancespiration 3
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why do u say LOVE it sthe most OVERRATED thng in the world........other day my friend saw a blonde guy playing pool and she said she was in love when in fact she had just broken up with her bf................now is that love.?
evrhtng on net may not seem as they really are.......thers more behind the thoughts........u may fancy them but in reality u'll go nowhere near those people even when they might turn to be smone who u know for ages.............
2006-07-18 13:32:58
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answered by taureanboy90 3
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