im 15 n i want to know if its ok.....
2006-07-18 06:17:50 · 34 answers · asked by sexygirl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
just wait til its time
2006-07-18 06:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by lilsexyshortie209 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
No it is not OK. A girl of 15 is not emotionally able to deal with the
powerful emotions that come during and after you have sex. As some people have said, it leads to false feelings of love that will confuse you (or anyone of any age). You are not prepared to be a mother. No method of birth controll is 100% reliable and condoms are not at the top of the list. Also, condoms, are not 100% reliable at preventing catching HIV or other STDs.
God said we should wait until we are married to have sex. Maybe
He knew what he was talking about. I didn't wait and that caused me much pain and heartache.
God bless you. Remember that He loves you.
2006-07-18 06:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Up here it's legal (Canada) if your bf is not more than three years older than you. I was having sex at 15, but my bf and I were very stable (we had a total of seven years together, split up at 21) and there was no risk of STDs or getting a bad reputation. But don't do it if yr bf is pressuring you and you don't feel ready! I think all girls are different and some are ready sooner than others. DO make sure you have the facts on birth control and how to protect yourself from STD's before you start, if you choose to. The last thing you want is to have a baby at 16. You have to decide for yourself if you are ready.
2006-07-18 06:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by Samlet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so.... and i say this because of 2 reasons. My friends 16 yr old is pregnant. Sex can turn into a 20 year commitment. Are you ready to take that chance??? Also i am 31. I am still incontact with a lot of y friends from high school...my best friedn from highschool had sex at 14....she is now 31....and till this day she says she wishes she could turn back time.... its baggage she will live with the rest of her life. Sex isnt momentary....it is life altering!!!! Please think it over. Just because society accepts it as normal and right, doesnt mean it is. My husband is the only man i ever slept with ( i did not wait for marriage) but i was 24....ready to take on the responsabilites that come with choosing to have sex. And i dont regret it!!! please think it over. I am not judging you by any means. If its what you want, hey, your life!!!! but please think it over.
P.S. SEX IS HIGHLY OVER RATED.... it can be great with the right guy, but dont TRY it cause everyone else is... when you hit my age and hubby wants it all the time....you find your happy place and hope hes done quick...hahahaha ( just joking)
2006-07-18 06:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by bangbanks72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this' are you ready for the consequences that come along with sex??? for example are you ok being 15 years old and possibly getting pregnant, are you ok if the guys condom breaks that you put yourself at risk for an STD, are you ok with AIDS which does kill you..You have alot of things to think about when it comes to sex, If you arent ready to deal with the things I mentioned you probably arent ready for sex...be safe
2006-07-18 06:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by italianprincess_fl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think that it is ok for you to have sex when you are just 15, but if you think that you are ready to have sex, then it is best to pratice safe sex all the time. what you have to think about is if you get pregnant or a sexually transmitted infection what would you do, and how would you tell your parents, also the guy that you want to have sex with do you love him? have you known him for a good while, does he love you? but it is best that you wait.
2006-07-18 06:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by Butterfly Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. The problem with having sex at that young of an age is that it often leads to ungrounded feelings of love - when you are not really in love with someone, but it feels like it because you have shared so much of yourself with them. Then, when the relationship doesn't work out, you will be completely heartbroken. You will have lost your virginity to someone you don't REALLY care about and when you find someone you DO really care about, you have no gifts to give them.
2006-07-18 06:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by Call me AL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No is it not OK. Sex is for adults only. When you become an adult and married then you can have sex. Until then keep your head in those books and get a good education.
2006-07-18 06:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
b/c it will effect you physically and emotionally.
My daughter is 15 and I know that at 15 your are not emotionally prepared for what will occur after you have sex.
also, their are AIDS, and other serious STDS you can get,, so it's not just a baby you can come home with,, you might come home to a coffin!!!
2006-07-18 06:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by Raynae W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time you don't need to rush into sex right now, but If you must then make sure you are on birth control and use a condom. I hope that you are aware of the disease there are out their and that you can get pregnant or worse get HIV, please wait for the right person to come along. I hope my answer was able to help you out.
2006-07-18 06:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by twofroggiesand1princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sexygirl,
Without going into massive long explanations (STDs, illegality if your partner is over 18, pregnancy, emotional trauma, emotional unpreparedness, hormonal crazyness, bad reputation), you should not have sex at age 15.
-j.
2006-07-18 06:21:45 · answer #11 · answered by classical123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋