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2006-07-18 06:01:58 · 28 answers · asked by RACHAEL R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you really loved the person, then you would put up with a whole whole lot...but once i realized that either they dont appreciate my love or they dont feel the same way, then thats where I have to draw the line.
2006-07-18 06:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by bishdnjuan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A relationship, plutonic or otherwise, should be gaged by how much "change" takes place.
All things change, but it is to what extent or extreme that defines the quality of a relationship.
Change is good. Change is exciting. Change is challenging. Change is life. But change too much and the relationship is no longer based on it's original equation.
The problem is not everyone realizes change while experiencing the lust of something new.
2006-07-18 13:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by mgremlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dealt with a lot in relationships, and ya, some didn't work out, but the one i am in now, we have worked out a lot of things that would bring a lot of relationships to an end. we are now stronger because we worked things out, and now we realize that we have each other, and we've been through things and stuck it out, so we know we are reliable to each other. when you love someone that much, there isn't much you can't work out, and ya, sometimes it takes a little longer to build back up TRUST that is gone, but as long as you are willing to try, and they know that you wanna be there, it will work.
2006-07-18 13:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by EarthAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how much I like the person that I am in the relationship with. If he/she is putting u through hell and u know that there is no future with that person then move, you 've wasted enough time.
2006-07-18 13:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything that allows for progress and isnt abusive. Making relationships last means you not only put up with a lot, but you learn to grow and make compromises.
Marriage is rough, dating is how you learn if a person is worth the struggle, and a practice run for how to handle long term commitments.
2006-07-18 13:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not put up with:
Infidelity because the person would not have basic moral character that is most important. Plus the risk of deadly diseases he might give me. A man who cheats on his wife doesn't love her period....no matter what he says. He is a liar in many ways.
Drug or alcohol abuse; Because I could be arrested with him and again no moral character. Can't tolerate a drunken or stoned fool.
Physical abuse: again lacking moral character and is a coward to harm a woman...plus it is impossible that a man who could hit you could love you or care about you at all.
Over jealous....goes hand in hand with the above.
No thieves: Anyone who steals is a lowlife.
2006-07-18 13:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by gone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are based on understanding and compromise. For a long lasting relationship you need to compromise a lot. I will try to give 100% to sustain a relationship that I care about.
2006-07-18 13:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by ratul s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat. HOW MUCH do you put up with? I'm at the point in my life where if I can't get what I need and want in return, I'm out the door. There are alot of fish in the sea. Why settle?
2006-07-18 13:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A whole hell of a lot if it is true love! (experience) But you know putting up with some one is not a one way road. They put up with you as well!
2006-07-18 13:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by flyingbumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship make up of happiness, suffering, patience, understanding, caring, time to build and the lists goes on.
You game for it?
2006-07-18 13:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by davidtay25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋