if your still in love with someone that used you and you what to move on but cant what to do
2006-07-18 05:29:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why do you want him?? Dont you think he will use you again??
Your question indicates you are very confused, and for the sake of your sanity, you will need to make up your mind, really fast. Because the longer you are undecided, you have lesser chances to be with someone who would love you for what you are really worth.
You are just reeling from the vacuum of 'been in a relationship'. Enjoy your single status, for the little while it lasts. Trust me, i used to pray to God, on my knees for a relationship, but after the pitfalls and plunges that I had to take in this relationship, I am ready to trade my relationship for a lifetime of been singleton.
Take up a new hobby, perhaps a new Outdoor game or something. Change phone numbers, Move addresses. Do anything you need to do to stop been idle. Because the more idle time, you have, the more you will think about your past.
*Though I know this answer will not get me 10 points, I want you to take this answer seriously*
2006-07-18 05:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. I have been in a 11 year relationship and I feel very used from the relationship. It is hard to cope on an every day basis but you have to think about yourself (for a change) and say to yourself every single morning, I"I survived another night and I am worth every day's adventure". I have to tell myself that i am happy and that I "will survive" all of the time. He hurt me very badly and I still think of him often. I am human it would not be a human trait to not think about him and or what he is doing. But I cannot beat myself up for the way he hurt me and I cannot blame myself for his mannerism on life. I hope that helps. You are worth everything in this world. and do not forget it. Go out and have fun, hang out with your friends, go out and party, go out to the beach and or spend a day of pampering at the salon. Do things for you and not for others around you. Good Luck !!!
2006-07-18 12:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be hard depening on how long you both were together, but if you keep your mind busy you'll find your self for getting about him. if i can do it after 6 yrs of sweet love, then you can every one goes through it. best wishes to you. keep your head up.
2006-07-18 12:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by MICHELLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I whould move on thats happen to me and i feel so much better about it
2006-07-18 12:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by kat B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you will just deal with it until a new romance is found.
2006-07-18 14:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋