this girl i have been with for 4 years left me for another dude and came back to me a month later and then we broke up a week later because she wanted to go back with him and now she says she hates me and even has called the cops on me for saying i am harrasing her, so why does she always come back to me and then act like she doesnt give a **** about me and treat me so worthless when i have always been here for her loving her like always, what should i do i have been really depressed and sick from a broken heart, someone please give me some honest advice but please dont be cruel
2006-07-18 05:23:16 · 9 answers · asked by institutefan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to chalk this up as a life experience and move on. No matter how you feel about this girl, she is just not worth it. The pain and hurt that she is putting you through is not fair, and you need to move on and find a woman who will love you and want to be with only you.
Break it off completely. Do not see her or talk to her anymore. She sees you as a safety net to be there when she needs someone or wants to mak herself feel good. Take some time for yourself and get your stuff together again before moving into another relationship. This is only fair to yourself and a potential mate in the future.
if you are finding yourself extremely depressed, talk to someone whether it is a friend or a professional. You need to build your self-esteem back up and realize that you are worth more than this and can do much better.
Good luck my friend. peace
2006-07-18 05:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by Raistliin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because she knows that you will take her back no matter what. If you want to stop the abuse, then STOP taking her back. She left you for another guy that should prove to you that she doesn't really want you as long as she can have someone else. Stop being a doormat. Love and relationships should not make your depress or sick. You can heal from a broken heart in time but not if you keep letting that crazy girl back in. She doesn't really care about you, it sounds like you need someone that is really going to care about you. So move on and allow yourself to be truly love by someone. Good luck.
2006-07-18 05:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright.. she's acting like she doesn't know what the hell she wants. which shouldn't be your problem. It's hers. she needs to sort her **** out and stop being so indecisive. I would distance myself from the situation copmpletely. If this is how she's going to treat you then she's not worthy of your time or effort. Even if you do love her. Sometimes loving someone doesn't make everything alright in the end. It just hurts us that much more. And as much as it hurts to say goodbye to her forever, don't you think it'll hurt more if you keep taking her back and then when the mood strikes her having to deal with her coming and going?? you seem really nice. you can do better than that. ultimately you need to do whats in your heart to do.. and if your tired of having your heart broken then why don't you just walk away from it.
2006-07-18 06:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by blooladybug87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol! im not laughin at u, man. obviously her a** got mental issues. find a nice girl who'll luv u and respect u. depressed? get out of the house. hang out w/friends or family. DONT b alone. after u start interactin w/ppl u will find some1 betta. dont let it get u down. just move on. everything will b ok. i know. i went thru it. Good luck, man.
2006-07-18 07:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Boss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 11:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find someone better. and get over that b i t c h. im really sorry for what happen but you should move on.
2006-07-18 05:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by pimpinette1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2006-07-18 05:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on.......let her go, why make yourself sick over someone who obviously doesn't care?
2006-07-18 05:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on forget about her you dont need her in your way ignore her
2006-07-18 05:27:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋