ok i met this guy a while back and i like him and he likes me but we dont want to be together.(i no its weird) but im going over there friday and we plan on doing some stuff but, hes 2 years older than me and way more experianced but i dont want to make a mistake what if i get prego or something.please help no rude coments
2006-07-18 05:08:12 · 9 answers · asked by christina s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Are you sure this guy is not just using you for fooling around? I think it sounds like this guy is trying to lead you into sex with no other strings attached. You said he was more experienced. Getting pregnant when you do not want to is very ugly when it should be beautiful. I think I would tell this guy that you do not want to be labeled a slut so without a commitment of being together you don't want to fool around. If he says ok, get some birth control. If he says good bye you know it was just a scam.
2006-07-18 05:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by curiosity 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this guy really likes you
then he should respect you.
By that I mean that by your letter you sound as if your not ready for the responsibility of having sex and that your not really certain if you should. I don't know how old you are, but you don't need to jump into something you are not ready for or not sure of.
If you respect your self enough you wouldn't just have sex to be having sex, and if he respects you he wouldn't ask you to.
Think about the pros and the cons of this, and then ask yourself is it worth it?
worth moving the friendship to a different level. whether he will still think of you the way he did before hand.
Sex does not make the heart grow fonder, IT MAKES THE BRAIN STUPID!!!!!!!!
2006-07-18 12:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by huggiebear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly sex happens when you love, not like someone. And you state clearly that neither of you want to (be together). I am unsure of your age, but sex because you (like) someone or out of boredom can lead to as you say prego, or an unwanted sexually transmitted disease and possibly AIDS are you willing to put the rest of your like in the toilet and give it a flush for someone you like? Wait till your older, married and LOVE someone. Hope this helps, and I wish you all the best!
2006-07-18 12:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u dont want to be together than don't so it becuz u will b using each other lata on for that one thing.In the long run some1 will get hurt.
2006-07-18 12:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by dagirl10149 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex . thats the only way to be safe. sleeping around will get you pregnant and an std like Aids protect yourself. only have sex with someone you are in a commited relationship. this guy is using you for sex. you dont have to sleep with a guy to get him to like you. have some self respect
2006-07-18 12:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it with no ties but remember allways use protection you don't want to get pregnant especially if you guys dont want to be together
there is nothing wrong with getting your freak on
2006-07-18 12:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by cynthgzmn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring condoms and take a pill next morning, that should take care of the prgnancy problem.
also, he is probably using you for the sex
2006-07-18 12:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you no your going over there to have S>>>>>>>E>>>>>>>>X.........but if you feel like your not ready don't do it
2006-07-18 12:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica_H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just use protection, and let it be...
2006-07-18 12:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by eprincezz06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋