2006-07-18 04:58:55 · 18 answers · asked by Lisa K 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If she considers him her father, yes. But there is no reason for his new girlfriend to be there, it should be daddy-daughter time only.
2006-07-18 10:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by sparklingsapphireeyes 5 · 9⤊ 5⤋
How long was he in her life? If you were with him for just a short time, then definitely no. However if you were together for a very long time, such as a few years, then you might consider it. If he was with her long enough to develop a relationship then it might be good for her to still have him in her life. Is her real father a part of her life? Has she viewed your ex-boyfriend as a father figure? These are important questions to consider. However the main question would be whether you trust him with her? I could not tell you yes or no with out knowing more details. I do know it is not a simple answer and there are a lot of factors to consider.
2006-07-18 12:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, while you guys were together, did you have your daughter calling him Daddy? Then to her, he's still her daddy. If he wants to take her on an outing and you truly have a reason for not wanting the new GF to go along, other than just not liking her, then you should request that she not go along. If they and you care about your little girl then you should be able to work something out. For her sake.
2006-07-18 12:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by DontPanic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think that you have to do this? Did he raise her as if she was his? If the truth is that he was there for the raising of your child. He feels like he is the father. And yes you should let him visit her. I'm sure your child would love that. Remember a sperm is not what makes a father. What makes a father is someone that is there for you, always.
2006-07-18 12:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he's just an ex-boyfriend so what rights does he have none that's your child not his if you say no no is no if he has a relationship with your daughter and wishes to see her he can make arrangements with you to come by and see her but being that he is an ex all ties should be cut completely
2006-07-18 12:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's a good idea...
You're the mother, she is your responsability and if he is your ex, why would he want to take her out? and with his girlfriend?
He can be a good guy, but think the bad things that could happen (you won't be around to protect her), I don't think it will worth it.
There are so many other options for your daughter to do, take her to the movies, invite one of her friends, go to the play ground, cook something together.....
2006-07-18 12:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by bershka_girl25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have to but if your daughter looks at your ex as a father figure and you know he wouldn't harm her it would be mean to keep her from him.
2006-07-18 12:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't but if they have some sort of special connection I wouldn't keep them from seeing each other. Plus the new girlfriend will never compare to mommy so thats another thing you really don't have to worry about.
2006-07-18 12:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by lillady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's like her dad and has been there from day one the that is like his child.
Anyone can give sperm but it takes a man to be a father.
If he has been actin as her father then I say yes!!!!
2006-07-18 12:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by PG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Of course not! If you don't want her to go with him then do not allow it. He cannot make you let her!
Protect her and love her and keep her with you.
2006-07-18 12:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by casey_leftwich 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋