I am 16 and my Boyfriend is 18. We have been going out for 9 months and its been going fine. He would ring me every night and we would spend as much time as possible together. But now nothing he rings once a week and i hardly ever see him if i am lucky its twice a week. Is he cheating ? If i mention any other girls he shuts up and does not talk. He has gone alot smarter and cleaner Heeeeelp i dont want to losse him i rely lov him !! HEEEEEEELP !!
2006-07-18 04:55:37 · 14 answers · asked by jes2k10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is already gone.Just using you for a fill in
2006-07-18 04:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by polockpete40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all age does matter in a relation, thats why you started talking about the 2 year difference. You said it was normal as if calling someone every night is normal, it used to be normal maybe in your situation and now that doesnt happen you see something problematic...
At least he is still calling you twice a week, why do you expect more calls? is he cheating on you? I dont have data I dont know him to say he is or he isnt, but if you know him you should find out whats going on, maybe he is not calling you for working or personal reasons or maybe we can think the worst.
You said he is getting cleaner and smarter, and you too !!! I will say you talk to him and if you really love him call him or write him explaining your emotions or in a personal conversation, maybe you or the relation needs time, it doesn´t matter, tell your parents about this situation and ask them for their opinion.
2006-07-18 07:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by frankomty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but yes, he's probably moved on. You're only 16, it's not as if you were going to end up together - although I know it feels like the end of the world, it's really not. You've got a good 10-20 years ahead to date lots of awesome guys, and it's just so much fun. So cut your losses, and move on to bachelor #2!
2006-07-18 05:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with bootsjeansnp...
it really seems like he's got something going on on the side. What it is I can't tell, but he's the one that should tell you this. It really sounds like he's just holding on to you "just in case". But talk with him. COMMUNICATE. A relationship won't work out without communication. Maybe he's going through issues and you need to be there for him and try not to judge him. K?
2006-07-18 05:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by luis.monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you already slept with him? If you did its possible that he cooled off after getting it. Or maybe you didn't want to so now her is looking for another girl. it is possible that hes cheating on you too. Maybe he is good guy and just has some family problem. TALK TO HIM!
2006-07-18 05:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by HarMonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do u love someone you dont see or tlk to ....If you have bad feelings about what he may be doing alot of the time your feelings are right......to have a relationship work it usually helps if both people are honest....his feelings and reactions to things would make me question
You are young think smart
2006-07-18 05:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by dejeepgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say your boyfriend is finding something else to entertain him somewhere other than at your house. You need to reevaluate whether you really want to continue seeing this guy becauue it sounds like he is pulling away but wants to keep you on the side just in case.
2006-07-18 05:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by bootsjeansnpearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go . It sounds like he needs a little space . If he really loves you he will jump back in that space. If he takes the space and runs with it then it wasn't meant to be
2006-07-18 05:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by Robert C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought about asking him what is going on? Sounds like a good place to start.
2006-07-18 05:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can bet he is fooling around! Find someone else. U're only 16, he could get busted for what he is doing.
2006-07-18 05:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by Steven K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that he is cheating on you so you better move on. But if you don't want to lose confront him about why he isn't calling you like before.
2006-07-18 05:06:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋