i wanted to cry last night cause i realize how much of a ho i am. my friend was riding his bike around 11'clock and i went outside to say hi. he said something to make me mad so i punched him in his face. he told me that i hit him hard. and i said thats not the only place i can hit you hard at. and am such a ho. i drop on him and he felt me up, then we had dry sex on the lawn til' my lil bro came outside. then i called him to plan a day for us to get together.....i dont know if i want to stop having sex yet, ...but i want to stop acting like a ho
2006-07-18 04:50:56 · 26 answers · asked by Alasia C 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
No one here can help you stop. You might want to talk to a psychologist who can figure out why you are doing what you are doing. It seems like you have low self-esteem and no self-worth. Something may have happened in your childhood that you don't realize. Maybe you didn't feel loved and you're looking for it now. Whatever...there is obviously something hidden deep inside to make you like this....especially if you feel you can't stop! Seriously, seek counselling! They can and will help you! Best of luck!
2006-07-18 04:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not a ho, and you're not a sex addict. You are seeking affection and attention and going about it the wrong way. No-one will respect you if you don't respect yourself. You need to have some self-control, and next time you feel the need for validation, sit down and write a list of everything you feel. Next to that list, write a list of what you can do (that doesn't involve sex) to make yourself feel better.
And if all else fails, get yourself a big tub of ice cream and rent the video "Whore"... it's the real version of "Pretty Woman" and it'll show you what you could end up doing if you don't start respecting yourself.
2006-07-18 12:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! O.K. you're obviously very young if a dude is riding his bike over to your house to see you. In fact, way to young to be having sex. But I'm not gonna get on my soap box about your age, 'K........
You're not addict to sex.....you've, I'm sure, just recently found out about sex, which makes you normal to want it ALL the time. It happens to everyone when they first have sex. But you need to control yourself and realize that your a girl and you totally have the upper (especially at this age) with the boys. The boys are just as eager as you are to have sex, but you gotta make them wait for it. Play hard to get and stop acting like a tomboy. It's time to grow up a little bit.....treat them with a bit more femininity.
They won't view you as a ho then......BUT YOU GOTTA MAKE THEM WAIT FOR IT. And then they will want you even more.
2006-07-18 12:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first, you aren't a ho for wanting sex, this is just human nature. But you should be careful and avoid unprotected sex; you never know. My younger brother, who is 18 is a sex aholic too. Although, he lives it out in the open, he sleeps with many girls, some of which I believe is without protection. If you feel you are too out of control, maybe you should start pleasuring yourself.
2006-07-18 11:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by prinsaysovdarkness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop jumping guys and keep your legs closed. Spend a little private time to take care of those needs yourself andyou might feel less like jumping on every **** that comes along. Yes you are a 'Ho but there is help for you. Ya need to find Jesus and put your mind on God
2006-07-18 11:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by digimutt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only an addict if it adversely affects your life.
I suppose calling yourself a "ho" would be an adverse effect.
Will power, counseling, and prayer are the ways out of addiction. It also helps if you have someone in your life who loves you enough to make you miserable enough to change.
2006-07-18 11:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by jfrabell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your got the ADIDAS syndrome.
ADIDAS = all day i dream about sex.
I'm a sex addict myself, hard to control it. I get lot of pressure built up from not having it every day. Try lot of masturbation but that only keeps me sane for a day or so.
2006-07-18 13:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by IKNOWALL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do away with the idea of controlling Sex.It would be like rubbing a very powerfull basic instinct on the wrong side.
Good old outdoor sports sometimes help. Prefer spending time with group of friends rather than individual friends.
Try to accept your individuality.
2006-07-18 12:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by baba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex doesn't just happen. You can control it. Stop having sex with guys who are only using you. Remember that sex and attention are not the same thing.
2006-07-18 11:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to control yourself. It's hard, very hard when someone is addicting to something that pleasures them so much, especially sex. Try praying about it or seek medical help.
2006-07-18 11:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋