Who here thinks that being a lesbian, gay or bi doesn't mean you have to see it sexually???

Question

To me it's not all about sex, it's about love too. Does anyone else here agree with me???

Answer 1

Though I'm straight I don't think bi and gay is all about sex for everyone. Sure for some it is, but for most it's just them coming over the sexual boundaries in the name of love. I'm with you here. I know most of my female friends are bi and they're not so much into the sex as the person involved. Why ya wondering? Not to be rude, but what do you care what people think about bis and gays? They're just like everyone else...looking for love.

Answer 2

So then why would you be gay? I love my guy friends but I'm not gay because it's not in a sexual way. Being gay or bi is a sexual preference...... so how can you take the sex out of it? It's not ALL about sex..... but it is a major part of it.

Answer 3

Your point is well taken. One's orientation directs who we are attracted to, not only for sex, but also for loving relationships. Ultimately, it would humane if our society emphasized and celebrated our loving relationships rather than obsessively dwelling upon the gender of our partners.

Answer 4

that is an incredibly good point. i have never thought about it. i believe the majority of my relationship was sex but you can definitely love another (same sex) and exclude sex, why else would they have made dildos and vibrators?


( they were actually made to cure insanity but we learned many other ways to use it ; )

Answer 5

I agree with you but I don't understand it.

Answer 6

of course it is about love also

Answer 7

I agree with you kittie...