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Question

hi i am army wifes husband and when ever we have sex i cant stay hard. what should i do to stay hard . my wife is now 34 weekd pregnant so we dont have sex as much but we do have it and i cant stay hard any time we have sex so what should i do. i can stay hard during oral witch we do alot since she is 34 weeks pregnant but i cant during sex.it sucks cuz i have a 7.5 that wont stay hard during sex. What Should I Do ?

i dont wanna use meds though

pluse+ i have tried that and i didnt like it cuz then i had to go to the doctor cuz it wouldnt go down and we could have had sex for hours

this has happened since before the pregnancy

also i dont wanna hurt her or my little guy but i wanna stay hard

it is not my fist child i already have a daughter who is 3

i have gone to the doctor for tests but there is nothing wrong with me

also i have tried a ring

the ring didnt help much

jodey joe that is mean i know you cant cuz we had sex with the fist baby but then 3 months after we had her this problem happend

I STILL NEED HELP

Answer 1

go see a doctor. but my guess is if your doing it with your wife who is 34 months you mentally don't want to hurt her or your child so its kinda of a turn off so you go limp. try after she gives birth it'll be fine.

Answer 2

There are many factors that may be making sex difficult for you at this time. You are probably under a good deal of stress as your wife is having a baby, especially if this is your first baby. Also, on some level, you may be thinking of your wife, not so much as your wife right now, but more as the "mother of your children." If you're seeing your wife as a mother figure, then obviously, sex will go out the window.

While there are many natural herbal products that would help with the physical aspect of your dysfunction, you may need just to relax and not worry so much. A few instances of impotence need not become a chronic problem unless you dwell on them obsessively. At least for now, focus on the romance and sensuality of lovemaking. Don't make it all about you. Your wife would probably find it most pleasing to get some good back and foot massages. Clean the house. Cook supper for her. Surround the bath tub with candles, scent the tub with some nice bath salts or make a bubblebath, and let your wife enjoy. Just be with your wife. Attend to her needs and desires. Spend an evening pleasuring her without taking direct pleasure yourself. You may find that when your mind forgets to think about your problem, your problem ceases to exist.

On the other hand, if, after all this, your problem does persist, consult your physician. You may have an undiagnosed medical issue. At the very least, your doctor can give you much better advice than you can expect online.

Answer 3

I think its important to look at what store the receipt is from as well as what was purchased. It could give you clues as to whether he was skipping work to do something he shouldnt have been doing. If its something common, like groceries, maybe the time was wrong. Try and think back to when he purchased the item on the receipt. Perhaps its from a supply store and he had to pick something up for his office? If that doesnt help, I would call, or go to the store, and ask the cashiers if the time is usually right and i would enquire about the item that was purchased on the receipt. Once again, if its something minute, I wouldnt worry about. But obviously if its something that he shouldnt have been buying then you should certainly bring it up.

Answer 4

Solve your own issues. You have all the excuses to all the answers. Which makes your questions unreal just a sick type of question.

Answer 5

if you have sex while she's pregnant you can pu a dent in the babys head lol

Answer 6

One word...Viagra.

Answer 7

have you try co ck ring?