my daughter is pregnant and she is only 15 what should i do.
2006-07-18 04:06:35 · 20 answers · asked by daydreamer_qt 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
sit her down and talk to her don't scare her and tell her you love her and you are not mad at her
2006-07-18 04:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by jamaalmikela 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The choice is hers. Well, I suppose you have a big deciding factor as well, but it is her body, and her child. She can go through with the pregnancy. Then she can either keep the child or give it up for adoption. There are plenty of older couples who can't conceive or would like a baby. Or , if she isn't too far along, she can get an abortion.
Just love her and support whatever she choses.
2006-07-18 11:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit with her and go thru all the options. Abortion-adoption- or keeping the baby. You need to tell her the good and bad of each choice. You need to be there for her and support her thru this and let her know u still love her and r right there for her. This is horrifying I know- you had much better plans for her than this I know!!! Dont we all??? But it just didnt happen that way. Deal with this day by day. You cant change it so u have to face it. Good luck to u She needs you now more than ever mom!
2006-07-18 11:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out who the father is. If he's over 18 file rape charges. Then decide whether to abort, keep the baby or put it up for adoption. It is important to discuss each choice in detail, considering the outcome carefully. Also, something went wrong in her moral values and her understanding of birth control. You have to get to the bottom of it so that it doesn't happen agaoin. If the father is another kid, he and his family need to be informed of their responsibilities.
2006-07-18 11:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats Grandma. If grandchildren were born first we could have dozens. You will never be sorry that she kept the baby, I promise you that. We adopted our first grandchild. He is the most wonderful child I have ever seen. No problems, no mouth, just all around great kid. Maybe biased don't know. She is glad now she didn't have abortion. Can't believe he will soon be 16. We had a lot of time to spend with him.
2006-07-18 11:13:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for her. support the decision she makes. kids make mistakes. if they didn't they would be perfect. she needs you most of all right now. this is not the time to judge her or what has happened. take it day by day, step by step. she will need you with each and every step of this. if she decides to abort, make sure she has all the risk info, if she decides to have the baby and put it up for adoption, stand behind her decision. should she decide to keep the baby, support her. i know this is soooooo hard on you and you feel like your world is falling apart but it's about her right now and you have to be the strong one. i will say a prayer for you and just know it will be ok. things do have a way of working themselves out. really they do. god bless both of you
2006-07-18 11:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by granny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be a mother of a 15 year old when you are only 11 years old? Stop with you stupid questions, ask something serious or go play in the street.
2006-07-18 11:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by little fairy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and let her knw that things will change. Dont do everything for her. Let some things be done by her. Hate to say but she will have to learn the hard way. I also agree with Granny cuz times do get hard 4 everyone.
2006-07-18 11:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by dagirl10149 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do but love her and be supportive. All the yelling in the world isn't going to change the fact that she is pregnant. Talk to the boy's parents and see what they plan to do as well.
2006-07-18 11:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and let her know that everything is going to be ok and that you all will get through it together. Those are the sweetest words to hear when you are young and so scared to death! (EXPERIENCE). Let her know that you will be right by her side through it all. Just don't let her make two mistakes in one......don't let her get married....I hate when people do that...Deal with one problem at a time. She needs YOU now more than ever.
2006-07-18 11:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by ladyanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her ,,,,, listen to what she is saying if you are hard on her she will not talk to you and she might not involve you in this hard time in her life,,,,,,,,,,, give her all her options with a open mind!! Also be there for and do not be hard on the father of the baby .............. Good Luck!!Get her to a doctor to confirm the pregnancy..... sometime the at home tests can be wrong!!
** FROM A LOOK AT YOUR OTHER QUESTIONS YOUR THE ONE WITH ISSUES,,,,,,,
2006-07-18 11:12:15 · answer #11 · answered by Sudzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋