2006-07-18 03:55:58 · 29 answers · asked by fly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NO!
Believe it or not--------YOU will be the one she says is trying to bread up her marriage!!
I know!! Quite backwards---but keep your nose out of that stuff-
2006-07-18 03:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't you want to be told if your husband was trying to hook up with one of your friends?
I think the girl he tried to kiss should tell his wife. If your not the person he tried to kiss, then maybe you should stay out of it, since it's only second hand gossip. Who knows IF it's even true. Let her handle it. IF it did happen, she should be the one to address it. If she chooses not to she's a coward, may feel that she led the husband on, and I wouldn't consider her a friend at all. It may not go over well, the wife may not believe her, BUT in the end a dog will eventually show his true colors!
If my friend's husband tried that with me, SURE I'd tell her! To me that's just being a loyal friend.
Long ago when I was married, my x did the same crap, and NONE of my friends told me, although he screwed them all. Some friends hu!?
And who knows maybe it didn't even really happen, maybe the one friend is jealous of the other friend, and she's trying to use you as a scapegoat to cause problems in their marriage. Why would she not tell the wife her husband did this anyhow? Why would she want you to tell? Doesn't make sense to me, smells FISHY!
2006-07-18 04:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by 2 cents 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her. The attempted kiss didn't happen to you, and you really have no proof or way to back up what your other friend has told you. If there is a problem in that couples marriage it will come to the surface on it's own, if it was a fluke, maybe he will gain some sense of regret and confess himself, or simply not do it again. But, your friend needs you to support her whether or not her marriage is strong or not, tattling on her hubby is not likely to benefit your friendship or your friend in the long run.
2006-07-18 04:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But I say this with caution . Whenever you tell someone something that will hurt them as it pertains to the person they love
always be able to accept the consequences if the friend happens to no longer associate herself with you.
Now if my husband would be so disrespectful and try to kiss a friend of mine, I would want to know because he would then lack qualities that I would want from my husband and he would be gone out of my life because I couldn't trust him and if I can't trust you, I don't need you in my life as a mate or husband.
Now, your friend could already know the character of her husband so again don't be caught off guard if she blames the messenger instead of the message.
2006-07-18 04:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. if you tell her she might not believe you and you will end up the loser. If this continues and you other friend tells you he continues making passes at her, I suggest you advise her to reject him and tell him that if he doesnt stop, she will tell his wife.
I think when a guy does this, he's likely to find someone else to kiss when being rejected by one. Whether you'd want his wife to know - the two of you friends must talk about.
2006-07-18 04:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. well, sorta. i think you should give the girl like two weeks to say something or you should. sometimes the truth hurts. but it hurts even more when the other one finds out you knew all along and you didnt tell her. this issue is tricky. but i think if you deel with it the right way it will end well.
2006-07-18 04:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by trumpets,horns,oboes.OH MY!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes; this information will eventually leak out - ALWAYS DOES - and when the full extent of it is known, the person is going to ask you about it, that is, they're going to ask if you knew anything about it - they already may know the truth, but you've already dug yourself into a hole.
2006-07-18 03:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should stay out of it. If any tells anything, it should be the friend he tried to kiss.
2006-07-18 03:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by clarity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. It's up to the friend who was almost kissed to tell, not you.
2006-07-18 03:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't. But I think you should try and convince this pal of yours to tell the other pal!
2006-07-18 03:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Encourage the friend to tell herself.
If I was the girl who's husband was pulling that crap - I'd want to know and I'd be pissed if my friend didn't tell me.
2006-07-18 03:59:28 · answer #11 · answered by Miss. A. Laneous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋