My boyfriend got mad at me last night, why I still don't know. But he took off and finally came home around midnight and since than he won't talk to me or even look at me. Should I back off and give him some space or try to talk to him to figure out what the problem is?
2006-07-18 03:52:44 · 7 answers · asked by farmergyrl23 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try to talk if he is not very receptive then he probably needs more time. If he isn't ready to talk now , let him know when he is ready you will listen. He will come to you when he is ready.
2006-07-18 03:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Obviously time is needed for him. What was the argument about? It may have not been as drastic for you as it was for him...and he needs time to think. I wouldnt push it just yet. I would say though, that if after today if he isnt talking, gently start the subject off with "hey i'm sorry how things went the other night and i wanted to make sure that you know that im sorry." Somthing like that can be helpful. It would all depend on the subject of the fight..how well you know him..how long you have dated, your age, etc. if you want more personal help, ask me. Im a therapist.
2006-07-18 11:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by iupui1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off...give him some space and time to think through things and then he'll come around..No need to aggrevate the situation further...
2006-07-18 11:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Hidden*Halo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him but if he wont talk to u then leave him some space and wait for him to talk to u
2006-07-18 11:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait tell he decide to talk if not then ask him what happen then if the result is still the same let it go for now PUT KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN BOO!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-18 10:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by muffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him it could be about you... talk to him dont leave him alone
2006-07-18 10:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by evilskterchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...talk to him. If it's nothing then he'll tell you. If it's big, worry.
2006-07-18 10:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋